"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just need some really quick advice fellow djs

poo

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Okay so i'm pretty sure I messed up. But you guys let me know what you think of the situation. I just cant for the life of me figure out how to reply. Please just give me constructive criticism don't bash me to pieces.

So went on a date with this girl who goes to my school we hit it off pretty damn well, and I was a complete boss in front of her and she was very attracted to me, you could just tell. Plus she told me multiple times. Anyways we chilled for like 6 hours and then i had to go.

later that night i texted her

"next time i see you, you're giving me a big kiss" (we didnt kiss when i was with her earlier)

she says "hmmm not sure if u deserve one yet"

i say "how could you resist these lips girl?"

she says "just watch :)"

then 5 mins later she sends me "just kidding, youll get your kiss next time"

i didnt reply.

then today i messaged her "guess whose number i just got"

it was this girl on tinder that i matched with who was smoking hot in front of her when we were messing around with my tinder on our date, we made it a point to see if i could get her number and take her on a date.. which i have made possible, got her number and were going out next thursday..

she didnt reply to my message for 5 hours, and said "im going to guess hot girls?!"

i may just be looking to deep into it, but she usually snap replies to me in like a matter of 1-2 minutes.

im thinking of replying by sending her the picture of the girl.. i must make it clear that we talked about getting the girls number for a good 15 minutes and how i would get it and sh*t..

and then after i send the picture to her then ask her on another date. she made it a point that she likes a challange.

but thats the best i could come up with.. and to be quite honest it sounds like a horrible fcking plan hahahaha, you guys tell me how to reply. i put myself in a jam i should have just not texted her anything today and shown her in person but mistakes have been made and theres no going back..

help me pull this around.

if u read my journal you know that i have many plates so if i DO end up losing this one its no big deal to me at all.. i just find her to be my best plate and i actually like her personality, would love to fck her. so help me out please :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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El Payaso

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Put all this nonsense aside and don't send any further messages. Stop all this 3rd grade game playing. The next message you send her should be asking her out on a concrete date with specific plans. Stop mindless texting. If you text mindlessly or just for the heck of it, you will definitely end up screwing up somehow. You will end up a mere orbiter in her eyes.

If David Beckham texted her mindlessly everyday, she would gradually lose every attraction she had for him.

Any mindless text you send now to dig yourself out of this hole will only bury you further.

The best thing you can do now is to go ghost for a day or two then ask her out on a definite date.
 
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