She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
, congrats man just keep practicing...you know what they say practice makes perfect.Spasibo Byezbozhniy!Byezbozhniy said:Welcome to the club fella. Just to weigh in, my first few times were a complete shambles too. I had problems getting hard. Also, I've never known a woman to come during her first sexual experience. Girls don't really masturbate like men, especially at that age, and she's probably never had an orgasm in her life. Some girls just don't know how to come, and normally blame themselves. I can make some girls come in 2 minutes, others can take 30 mins whilst others just can't come at all. Still, they value the 'emotional bond' that you create while having sex, so don't be too worried by it. If you can make her come though, she'll want you for life.