Nine Breaker
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This post is long, and deals with WHY we were all meant to be Jerks, turned out as Nice Guys, and why we should forsake the ways of BOTH groups. Happy reading!
You were born to be a Jerk.
From the second of your creation, to the present day, you were meant to be a selfish single-minded creature who's goal in life was to look after yourself. This is unavoidable and unchangeable. Can you guess why?
It is programmed into your genetic code.
The idea is for you to pass on your genetic material to a new generation, so that your own strain survives through the ages. This is the very core of the Jerk persona. A Jerk is as he is because he follows what his genes tell him, through urges and impulses into his subconscious mind.
The question here is: how come there are so many Nice Guys if we are all meant to be Jerks by nature?
While we are physically sculpted to be Jerks, as we grow up we are "Programmed" mentally by those around us (parents, friends, television, etc..) and it's through these factors that we determine independently our own set of morals and standards on how we should live. The problem here lies in the fact that society sees being the Nice-Guy to be a good thing - that if you are nice to others they will be nice to you in turn.
It's a nice fantasy, but bullsh!t all the same.
Sometimes, you find guys who weren't programmed with the same Nice-Guy ideals as most of mankind today. We automatically assume that this is due to poor parenting, or the guy is a "problem-child" - but this is what society tells us in order to keep us quiet and under control. In reality, the Jerk is simply a guy who follows the urges he was born with - and lives for himself as he sees fit.
The Nice Guy is another story. He is told what he should and should not do with his life. His primal urges are played down and compared to animals, and often his self esteem fails as he sees that the ideal world that society prepared him for does not exist, and he is unequipped to handle and master women as he should be able to.
Where does the Don Juan fit into all this? Many say that a DJ is the combination of the good qualities of both categories, but without the weaknesses of either. Many say that a DJ is the combination of Nice Guy and Jerk, the "Nice-Jerk" if you will.
Truth is, the Don Juan is not the "grey region" between the other two extremes, but is something else entirely...
Unlike the Jerk, the Don Juan must be able to overcome his primal urges, the instructions from his very own genes, and be able to live a life that he has COMPLETE CONTROL over. Before a Don Juan is able to master women in the dating arena, he must be a master of himself.
And, unlike the Nice Guy, a Don Juan NEVER gets told what he should and shouldn't believe, act, think, feel, and do. Your life belongs to you - nobody else owns a part of your existence! A Don Juan knows this, and will do anything and everything according to his own set of goals and morality.
If you are new to the concept of becoming a Don Juan, then before you begin your quest for the Confidence you will need in days ahead, you MUST be able to forsake all that you have learnt before now, and even overcome the very urges you were born with if you ever hope to become a real master of your own life.
Simply put,
JUST LET GO.
Thanks for reading.
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Since the moment of your birth, you have been destined to die. Nothing you can ever do will change this from happening.
However, you CAN change what will happen from now until then, but only if you dare to try.
DO YOU DARE?
[This message has been edited by Nine Breaker (edited 05-06-2002).]
You were born to be a Jerk.
From the second of your creation, to the present day, you were meant to be a selfish single-minded creature who's goal in life was to look after yourself. This is unavoidable and unchangeable. Can you guess why?
It is programmed into your genetic code.
The idea is for you to pass on your genetic material to a new generation, so that your own strain survives through the ages. This is the very core of the Jerk persona. A Jerk is as he is because he follows what his genes tell him, through urges and impulses into his subconscious mind.
The question here is: how come there are so many Nice Guys if we are all meant to be Jerks by nature?
While we are physically sculpted to be Jerks, as we grow up we are "Programmed" mentally by those around us (parents, friends, television, etc..) and it's through these factors that we determine independently our own set of morals and standards on how we should live. The problem here lies in the fact that society sees being the Nice-Guy to be a good thing - that if you are nice to others they will be nice to you in turn.
It's a nice fantasy, but bullsh!t all the same.
Sometimes, you find guys who weren't programmed with the same Nice-Guy ideals as most of mankind today. We automatically assume that this is due to poor parenting, or the guy is a "problem-child" - but this is what society tells us in order to keep us quiet and under control. In reality, the Jerk is simply a guy who follows the urges he was born with - and lives for himself as he sees fit.
The Nice Guy is another story. He is told what he should and should not do with his life. His primal urges are played down and compared to animals, and often his self esteem fails as he sees that the ideal world that society prepared him for does not exist, and he is unequipped to handle and master women as he should be able to.
Where does the Don Juan fit into all this? Many say that a DJ is the combination of the good qualities of both categories, but without the weaknesses of either. Many say that a DJ is the combination of Nice Guy and Jerk, the "Nice-Jerk" if you will.
Truth is, the Don Juan is not the "grey region" between the other two extremes, but is something else entirely...
Unlike the Jerk, the Don Juan must be able to overcome his primal urges, the instructions from his very own genes, and be able to live a life that he has COMPLETE CONTROL over. Before a Don Juan is able to master women in the dating arena, he must be a master of himself.
And, unlike the Nice Guy, a Don Juan NEVER gets told what he should and shouldn't believe, act, think, feel, and do. Your life belongs to you - nobody else owns a part of your existence! A Don Juan knows this, and will do anything and everything according to his own set of goals and morality.
If you are new to the concept of becoming a Don Juan, then before you begin your quest for the Confidence you will need in days ahead, you MUST be able to forsake all that you have learnt before now, and even overcome the very urges you were born with if you ever hope to become a real master of your own life.
Simply put,
JUST LET GO.
Thanks for reading.
------------------
Since the moment of your birth, you have been destined to die. Nothing you can ever do will change this from happening.
However, you CAN change what will happen from now until then, but only if you dare to try.
DO YOU DARE?
[This message has been edited by Nine Breaker (edited 05-06-2002).]
