Triple X
Senior Don Juan
"Huh? What? That sposed to be a tip?" is what your probably thinking.
Yes, it is.
Let me explain. This may possibly have been mentioned before but never expanded on in detail.
Lots of things in life seem to have a certain irony about them. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. But the most ironic thing of all?? The times I have been most successful with women have always been the times I have cared less and been trying least!!
And conversely, the times I have gone out thinking 'Yeah I'm gonna pull tonight!!' and tried really hard are precisely the times I have always gone home empty-handed (actually that's not true, there was something in my hand but that's nothing to be proud of)
So what am I saying? Don't bother trying? No, that's not what I'm saying at all.
What I am saying is simply have fun and enjoy yourself!!! and more often than not, the women will come to you!!
When you go out clubbing or any social event where women are present, try not to even think about them too much. If you meet any, great. If not, then it's really not a problem.
The main point to focus on is having fun. Don't ask me why but every time I have been purely thinking about having fun and just relaxing/enjoying myself, a lot of the time women just seem to come out of nowhere and before I know it I'm having conversations (usually drunken), kino and a lot of fun.. and sometimes even phone numbers.
Am I good looking and/or rich?!? Well not really, I mean I don't look like the arse-end of a dog (a$$ if your American) but I think what it is, is women are largely attracted to happy & fun people. The fact you are having a good time subconsciously communicates to women that you are fun to be around and a positive/happy person, two very positive traits indeed.
But also I must explain it doesn't work if you are being fake. Like, thinking 'if I go on the dancefloor and look like I'm having a really good time, then women will surely surround me!' Believe me, this doesn't work. Women seem to be very good at sniffing out ulterior motives, even if you don't think its that obvious.
Your attitude should be almost as if you are not even thinking about women at all, as though they are not even there and/or completely irrelevant to you as you totally enjoy yourself. Almost as though you are not expecting anything much to happen, and if nothing did you would go home satisfied anyway. You need to be genuinely having fun, as opposed to trying really hard to be seen as 'fun'.
Of course it doesn't work every time, but let me tell you it certainly increases your chances of success. First of all, it puts you above a lot of the creepy losers who just like to hang around close to hot women on the dancefloor obviously hoping to get some action (trust me I used to be one of them, I should know ). Women know what these guys are after and are rarely impressed.
Secondly you are both having fun and projecting yourself as fun - as I said, two very attractive traits. Provided you don't look like a bulldog's a$$ you should be generating some level of attraction. And if not, who cares - you still had fun, right?!
It's really as simple as that - and some really strange irony too. Like, the less you think about women, the more you seem to get. Go figure.
Yes, it is.
Let me explain. This may possibly have been mentioned before but never expanded on in detail.
Lots of things in life seem to have a certain irony about them. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. But the most ironic thing of all?? The times I have been most successful with women have always been the times I have cared less and been trying least!!
And conversely, the times I have gone out thinking 'Yeah I'm gonna pull tonight!!' and tried really hard are precisely the times I have always gone home empty-handed (actually that's not true, there was something in my hand but that's nothing to be proud of)
So what am I saying? Don't bother trying? No, that's not what I'm saying at all.
What I am saying is simply have fun and enjoy yourself!!! and more often than not, the women will come to you!!
When you go out clubbing or any social event where women are present, try not to even think about them too much. If you meet any, great. If not, then it's really not a problem.
The main point to focus on is having fun. Don't ask me why but every time I have been purely thinking about having fun and just relaxing/enjoying myself, a lot of the time women just seem to come out of nowhere and before I know it I'm having conversations (usually drunken), kino and a lot of fun.. and sometimes even phone numbers.
Am I good looking and/or rich?!? Well not really, I mean I don't look like the arse-end of a dog (a$$ if your American) but I think what it is, is women are largely attracted to happy & fun people. The fact you are having a good time subconsciously communicates to women that you are fun to be around and a positive/happy person, two very positive traits indeed.
But also I must explain it doesn't work if you are being fake. Like, thinking 'if I go on the dancefloor and look like I'm having a really good time, then women will surely surround me!' Believe me, this doesn't work. Women seem to be very good at sniffing out ulterior motives, even if you don't think its that obvious.
Your attitude should be almost as if you are not even thinking about women at all, as though they are not even there and/or completely irrelevant to you as you totally enjoy yourself. Almost as though you are not expecting anything much to happen, and if nothing did you would go home satisfied anyway. You need to be genuinely having fun, as opposed to trying really hard to be seen as 'fun'.
Of course it doesn't work every time, but let me tell you it certainly increases your chances of success. First of all, it puts you above a lot of the creepy losers who just like to hang around close to hot women on the dancefloor obviously hoping to get some action (trust me I used to be one of them, I should know
). Women know what these guys are after and are rarely impressed.Secondly you are both having fun and projecting yourself as fun - as I said, two very attractive traits. Provided you don't look like a bulldog's a$$ you should be generating some level of attraction. And if not, who cares - you still had fun, right?!
It's really as simple as that - and some really strange irony too. Like, the less you think about women, the more you seem to get. Go figure.