"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just Got Laid

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This place must be lucky :lol: So I broke my several month dry spell with a new girl. She was so ravenous and because I cvm quickly sometimes I had to tell her to slow down sometimes. But overall I was able to fvck for an hour and a half ish. We stopped for food and then went at it again but that time I wasn’t able to hold it and came.

Any how, super cool. That makes me 8 for the year and she says she wants to come back again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That is very good. You are not the incel that you were thinking that you were becoming.
Thanks bro, I really appreciate that. I was totally worried because it had been so long. Glad I have this place to come to and y’all are so supportive. Cheers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Modern Man Advice

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Good stuff man. It feels good, so savor it.

Just play it cool, don't become too attached or needy. I know it will be tempting since she is your only plate now but pretend you have 5 other plates (or even better get them for real) and don't give her too much importance. Not saying pretend to walk on water and ignore him all the time, but maybe see her every other week and take it from there.

Again, good stuff man. Proud of you. Enjoy it!


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thats right. dont get attached and needy. dont talk to her everyday give her the gift of missing you but when you do tap in you give her that nectar of the gods. Your availability should be a privilege she gets the hots for.
dont tolerate any disrespect.
When the sh!t testing strikes stay stoic with a cold head. She stays or she leaves remember you already did what you had to do.
 

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thats right. dont get attached and needy. dont talk to her everyday give her the gift of missing you but when you do tap in you give her that nectar of the gods. Your availability should be a privilege she gets the hots for.
dont tolerate any disrespect.
When the sh!t testing strikes stay stoic with a cold head. She stays or she leaves remember you already did what you had to do.
Yeah this ain’t my first girl Brah
 

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Well played Sarge. I have a big night out planned for Halloween at a nearby university's rock night.
I have a movie accurate Heath Ledger Joker costume to wear including prosthetic scars, I'm dying my
hair green next week and one of my friends is coming over to curl it a bit for full authenticity. I'm certain
it will attract some attention. Let's see if I can find someone with daddy issues and a clown fetish :rofl:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well played Sarge. I have a big night out planned for Halloween at a nearby university's rock night.
I have a movie accurate Heath Ledger Joker costume to wear including prosthetic scars, I'm dying my
hair green next week and one of my friends is coming over to curl it a bit for full authenticity. I'm certain
it will attract some attention. Let's see if I can find someone with daddy issues and a clown fetish :rofl:
Damn, I’ve always wanted to **** a girl while wearing a Halloween mask. Ghost face or my killer clown would be hot especially if I filmed it! Best of luck man

@forcerecon01 Thank you

@jimwho Thank you #2
 

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Well played Sarge. I have a big night out planned for Halloween at a nearby university's rock night.
I have a movie accurate Heath Ledger Joker costume to wear including prosthetic scars, I'm dying my
hair green next week and one of my friends is coming over to curl it a bit for full authenticity. I'm certain
it will attract some attention. Let's see if I can find someone with daddy issues and a clown fetish
Go after it Birddog, don't go too crazy & scare them off. Thumbs up..
 
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