"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just caught ex driving by my place..how can I get her back?

gimmeyofonenumba

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I made another post about her flirting. She mentioned she'd change but I still stuck to my guns and asked her to leave. I admit I was over the top and a little verbal abusive. I've texted seeking reconciliation but I get no response. Her mother told me she thinks we shoukd move on. Than an hour later I catch her driving by my place. She saw me and looked embarrassed. I may be making an emotional decision and am looking for advice on how to proceed. Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gro0ver

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She should have treated you with more respect. Go out and meet some more chicks, forget the same old now you can get an upgrade :woo:
 
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