"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just broke up with my gf (need help fast)

The_Mole

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i just broke up with my gf today

we've been together for a month

i had to break up with her cuz her personality is bad

however theres this feeling inside of me that wants to be with her still

she is a virgin... i want to pop a cherry before moving onto more experienced girls ;)

should i still be her friend and see what happens?

should i call her tonight to make sure how shes feeling cuz i'm her first boyfriend?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jakeyboy

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uh let me get this straight.

you broke up with her because of her shi* personality

but you still want to be with her so you can "pop her cherry" and becuase you have a feeling you wanna be with her?

why would you feel you want to be with a girl whose personality is crap and now try to get her back when you broke up with her in the first place???

WHAT???

WHAT???

WHAT???

i still cant believe you posted that trash.

wait... one more time

you broke up with her, because of a bad personality... and now you feel like you want her back so you can screw her and you're thinking of calling her to see if she's alright? WHAT??? WHAT???

god. i could slap you.

move on man.

its over.

you dumped her

if she's smart, she wont ever accept you back

and after all those posts you didnt learn anything?
 

Sart

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ditto

ditto to jakeyboy
 

LikRetsam

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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