Junior year reports/ help needed

[sportsguy]

Hey everyone - Ive been reading this forum for a while now and decided I finally could use your help haha. Basically I am a junior in high school and its been a while since ive gotten with a girl. Theres this girl that I am starting to get into and I dont want to mess it up haha. So here is the main info about it:

- Shes not in any of my classes, but I see her in the hallway and say hi maybe twice a week and sometimes make conversation. Shes also almost never on facebook/online which makes it harder to communicate. I probably just need to man up and talk to her in between classes, but its hard because she is always talking to/around friends that I'm not great friends with which Im uncomfortable with I guess. Also, I am good friends with 2 of her good friends which I am hoping will help.

-Add. info - last year we had a class together and she said hi to me all the time in the beginning of the year but I was stupid and didnt know she might have liked me and I never made a move. We arent really friends - I dont think I'm in the friendzone but we are friendly. Also, I do not have her number.

Thanks for any help and advice u guys have I will def do whatever is needed haha. Ill keep u posted on what happens.

 

[jeffthechef]

"i don't want to mess it up"

First negative sign...This one line expresses your result-dependency, which is the "kiss of death." (I put that in quotations cause there's an article in the SS hall of fame titled with that name, that gives the solution to your problem)
Assume she's into you, know she's into you. Know you can get her number. Know she wants to give you her number. etc.
Results/Rejection/Success are what you want them to be.

She's not in your classes= good thing. I'm going to reference Twilight, THOUGH I HAVE NEVER SEEN THE MOVIE/BOOK/ANYTHING. Anyways, one of my ex's was reading twilight a year before the movie came out. At the time, she only told me it was a book about vampires/romance and ****. She told me why she liked the guy in it so much. He was a mystery. Not being in her class opens you up to girls in the class that she's not in. and prevents you from being with her too much, especially in settings that aren't too private.

You talk to her in the hall, know her friends. You're new to this site, i'm guessing you aren't feeling too confident, at least not confident enough to just walk up and get her number...So here's what i suggest, as a stepping stone. Get something going on the weekend with her 2 friends tha tyou know, then tell the girl you want, that she should come along. DON'T ASK HER TO COME, TELL HER SHE SHOULD. she comes, great. She doesnt, oh well you're still out with 2 girls.

One girl is only one girl, ESPECIALLY IN HIGH SCHOOL.

 

[glyclenig]

Disappointed: I really liked Tyler Smith. He and Tennessee just couldnt get in a groove this year. Theres always the tournament though.

Surprised: Big 10. Come on, the hate feels good. lol