juggling two girls..

[nacho]

ive been kinda seeing this chick, shes really into me. but the things is im not that into her, shes more like a booty call type of chick to me. shes cool and all but i dont want her as a gf. for starters she was married when i met her and i was seeing her, well now shes separated or divorced i think but shes getting a little attached.

i met some other chick that i dig but she wants to go out to the club where the other chick is usually at. i tried to throw in different ideas to go to different clubs or bars but she really likes that other club..

so umm. how would you guys handle this situation?
keep the easy screw?
or take a chance not knowing if ill score with the other chick?

 

[ChapStick]

You can get away with juggling 2 girls at the same time if you know what you're doing.

First of all, chick #1.

She has just been out of a marriage. Probably in need of some attention, and you are just that for her. Of course she's going to be getting a little more attached than before. She's single again! No more commitment and worries about a hubby! Just be smart and don't be the next loser to wind up being chained to this woman. You already know she is low quality product my friend! She was cheating when you met her, and I'm sure you know she hasn't changed!

Girl #2, on the other hand.

Have some fun with her! I say go for it! No risk, no gain!

The problem is, she keeps wanting to meet up at the club where girl #1 hangs out. Ask her out on your terms! You name the time and the place! If she can't flow with that, then you know you've got some interest level problems on your hand.

You could always call up girl #1 and ask her what she's up to, and make sure she's not at the club, and doesn't have any plans to go. Or instead, you could schedule a meet with girl #2 when girl #1 is gonna be busy doing something else, elsewhere. Be creative!

I mean, if girl #1 hangs out at clubs when you're supposedly "seeing her," then this doesn't look like a real committed relationship in the first place. Take advantage of that! Play the field if it's what makes you happy!

Remember... If she's an easy screw for you, then she's probably an easy screw for many others as well...

Hope something in this made some sort of sense to you and leads you to making the right decision!

 

[kdnash82]

You're not committed to either one of these girls. When you head out to the club and you run into the other girl, don't act all scared and nervous. Keep your cool and greet the other woman. Hug her, and make it seem that absolutely nothing is wrong. Keep the conversation short. The most important part is to introduce the two women to eachother.

Kim... this is my friend Kelly... Kelly, this is my friend Kim..

Now you have to make your way out of this. Tell girl that you didn't come with that it was crazy bumping into her, and that you guys need to hang out sometime soon. She'll agree and that's when you put your hand on the back of the girl you came with and walk away. DO NOT GRAB HER HAND.

Hope this helps and good luck.