"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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crossboss

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So this girl invited me to go to the Necto night club tonight. Although, before I touched her on the ass twice. Although, I don't know if she noticed so I don't know if this is a good sign or not. Then to get her attention I touched once on the leg...with her back turned. She said, "Did you just touch me?" I said "yes" She said "Well, that was kind of scary.(while smiling)" I said sorry, and she said "that is okay(smiling)". So I don't know if this sign is really bad enough sign or not.

Also while she was sitting she moved away, and said "I am sitting away from you guys." I said "good!" Then she said "So I can stare at you."

Also when she invited the guys to the night club she said "Going to the nightclub?...b*tches?" Calling us b*tches...Good sign? I would like to bang her tonight...

One good sign was that I put my hand around her neck, and she smiled.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You don't know if she noticed you touching her ass, but she turned around and asked you about it when you did it? How old are you again?
 

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No...Sorry bad communication..

She didn't ask about touching her on the ass. Only, when I touched her on the leg.
 

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crossboss said:
So this girl invited me to go to the Necto night club tonight. Although, before I touched her on the ass twice. Although, I don't know if she noticed so I don't know if this is a good sign or not. Then to get her attention I touched once on the leg...with her back turned. She said, "Did you just touch me?" I said "yes" She said "Well, that was kind of scary.(while smiling)" I said sorry, and she said "that is okay(smiling)". So I don't know if this sign is really bad enough sign or not.

Also while she was sitting she moved away, and said "I am sitting away from you guys." I said "good!" Then she said "So I can stare at you."

Also when she invited the guys to the night club she said "Going to the nightclub?...b*tches?" Calling us b*tches...Good sign? I would like to bang her tonight...

One good sign was that I put my hand around her neck, and she smiled.
"Well that was kind of scary"

Jack Presscot's answer would have been "Go f*ck yourself, you ridiculous Lesbian, lose my number and stay away from me the rest of the night."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Last night

I did get some rejections: One where I was drunk and actually used the same pick-up line twice on the same group of girls by accident. Although, it is new, it has worked so far 100% of the time. But, this time it failed because I used it twice.

Also this one group rejected me, when I approached them, I didn't even get a word in and they said "We don't even want to talk to you!"


Semi-Positive
I decided to introduce myself to a girl I'd seen in high school, I sat down with her and had a conversation.

Also approached some guys and girls without trying to get their number for warm-ups.

Positive
I met one girl, one which just kind just touched me on the ass, so I decided to kiss her. The other girl I got play from was the one who invited me, to come in the first place. So thanks for the advice. Even though, I haven't gotten laid yet, I am going to keep pursuing the girl, she was pretty hot.
 
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