I am in a pickle concerning one girl.
She is really interesting for me, I like her a lot. She came here from a foreign country. We seem to have a lot in common, including what we study, and both having lived in the caribbean. She just moved to my country and I welcomed her with open arms - wanted to show her all about the place.
I paced the game nicely at first, got the number, made time-bridge for date.
Anyway I texted her(AFC game, I apologize), and she said she wanted to simply get to know me at school, so I went NC.
We went on a 3-day field-trip, and on the second night I ran into her in the lobby. I asked her if she wanted to come out to the park, she agreed. So we went, I held her hand, we went and sat down on a bench.
I told her: "The only thing I wanted to do when I asked you to come to Amsterdam was this."(vulnerability game), she started feeling a bit sorry, but she still was doubtful whether she wanted to come to visit me. I decided not to kiss her, I let her walk back to the hotel by herself, even though it was only a 1 minute walk. I told her I had a lot on my mind, and gave her a good mind-fvcking, how there's nothing wrong with her, but that I am simply quite confused right now.
Now, with hindsight I can imagine that if I had kissed her she might be much more willing to come over, and I could even be fvcking her right now in my living room, where I am typing this now, by myself.
On the other hand, I am sure I sent her hamster-wheel into overdrive.
I may have done, what is regarded to in The Art of Seduction as instilling dread. I think she whispered that I am an 4ssh0le later the next day, even though she was shaking her ass when she walked off to the hotel. Man I really play hardball game sometimes... I am not actively spinning any plates by the way, this is simply my game on auto-pilot.
She is really interesting for me, I like her a lot. She came here from a foreign country. We seem to have a lot in common, including what we study, and both having lived in the caribbean. She just moved to my country and I welcomed her with open arms - wanted to show her all about the place.
I paced the game nicely at first, got the number, made time-bridge for date.
Anyway I texted her(AFC game, I apologize), and she said she wanted to simply get to know me at school, so I went NC.
We went on a 3-day field-trip, and on the second night I ran into her in the lobby. I asked her if she wanted to come out to the park, she agreed. So we went, I held her hand, we went and sat down on a bench.
I told her: "The only thing I wanted to do when I asked you to come to Amsterdam was this."(vulnerability game), she started feeling a bit sorry, but she still was doubtful whether she wanted to come to visit me. I decided not to kiss her, I let her walk back to the hotel by herself, even though it was only a 1 minute walk. I told her I had a lot on my mind, and gave her a good mind-fvcking, how there's nothing wrong with her, but that I am simply quite confused right now.
Now, with hindsight I can imagine that if I had kissed her she might be much more willing to come over, and I could even be fvcking her right now in my living room, where I am typing this now, by myself.
On the other hand, I am sure I sent her hamster-wheel into overdrive.
I may have done, what is regarded to in The Art of Seduction as instilling dread. I think she whispered that I am an 4ssh0le later the next day, even though she was shaking her ass when she walked off to the hotel. Man I really play hardball game sometimes... I am not actively spinning any plates by the way, this is simply my game on auto-pilot.