"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Elliot

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All - 2nd post on here - really getting this game - 43, in London and more grounded/confident day by day - 3 most recent experiences - just returned from 2nd date with really cute, very petit (5 ft - I'm 6 ft 3!) 23 year old Chinese graduate - however failed to deploy at end. have bright 45 year old keeping it hot with me (she kissed first and deployed me on last date - but has been in Canada on holiday for last 2 weeks - whatsapping regularly) ex-partner (have a child with) came around last week to cook birthday steak for me.

Emotions (their side) ebbing and flowing all the time with these 3 and others I will start dating shortly - question is, final stage of deployment on my side so far is the hurdle - one key piece of advice on jumping this hurdle or just kicking out of the way much appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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