"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Journal*Girl knows I have a girlfriend but...

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Journal*Girl knows I have a girlfriend but...
She wants to hang out this weekend...

I met this girl a few weeks ago through my room mate's girlfriend.
She just turned 18... :whistle:
Well I hugged her when I first met her, talked, flirted, etc...
(I didn't tell her to give me her number because I have a girl.)
Then the next day she finds out I have a girlfriend via myspace... :cuss:
But she at least messages me on myspace and asks if we can be friends.
So I add her on myspace... 2 weeks later aka last night I e-mail her this...
(Note* I changed things up because simply she is 18, etc...)
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Jenn... I'm alone at work at 2 am... This might be long...

I was telling Amy we should be friends, :p
I don't want you thinking I'm trying to string you along or anything.
Good friends are hard to find :p

I keep calling William and Amy a married couple.
I think Amy takes it wrong. I think its funny.
Me and William have the same last name,
so... I said, "yal should get married, we'd be the golden family!"
They are like always around each other.
I guess it isn't a bad thing if you can stand to be around someone that much and not argue.

I kept telling Amy, I wish Jenn was here, Jenn would like that, I wonder what Jenn is doing. She didn't get it. Like she thought I was serious. haha

This long e-mail is your xmas gift :p

later
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Reply...

haha wow that was random, but cute :)

Yea, it would be cool to be friends and all, just so you could tease me about being young.

We should hang out soon. Like this weekend or something, not that I want to like, see you or anything. I just want your cat to lay on my shoes :p

If you ever get bored, you should text me- ###-####
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So not only does she ask me to add her on myspace, she asks for us to hang out and asks for me to text her. I'd say that is the best hard to get game that is going well.

I'll continue to update you guys. I seriously have no idea where I want to take this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Boy, oh boy, i am in the same position as you are kinda. I have a girl friend right now, but our relationship is turning to sh1t, and this girl i hooked up with i liked, and then we just became friends cus she "saw me that way". Yet, she always calls me, i never call her, she calls me every day and we talk, and like 40% of the time i dont pick up cus i am busy or just bored of talking to someone that has no interest in me. But just last few days we got to talking a lot, which got me to start to really like her a lot... she is easing up on me a bit with flirting as well, but im still confused. She then tells me to be honest with my feelings for her, and i tell her that i like her brain and shes cool. i dunno wtf i was thniking lol. And she told me she likes it when guys are up front with her about their feelings, SHE KNOWS the way i felt, i mean i came on pretty hard on her in the past, and i just gave up and said fck it, and she told me she saw me more as afriend, so i thought it was weird that all of the sudden she asked me this.... Anyways... Unlike my current gf, this girl and i actually have conversations, we talk way more than me and my own gf do, and she actually has things to talk about, shes funner too, she is even going to get me a christmas gift lol. And my gf told me she wasnt that she couldnt today cus she had no money.. its strange.. its like me and the other girl should be a couple instead.. but I dont know, this girl is a player i think, she has a TON of guys seriously chasing after her. But i always thought it was weird how she called me so much....

But yeh, keep us posted, i remember i read a thread about text mesages being bad, and i dunno for me it did wonders for tonite.. lol..
 
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Funny how girls like us more when we are taken... :rolleyes:
I wonder what would happen if we were single with these same girls?
*Hint hint... I bet they would like us half as much... And give us half as much attention...

Keep us updated

Good luck DonDan
 
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You could buy one of those shirts "Myspace ruined my relationship" if you do, do something drastic lol.
 
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