So this is the first time I have started trying out DJ strategies on girls, so I am going to write down what I'm doing. Its not that exciting compared to other peoples probably, but I feel like writing it.
So there is this girl on my intramural soccer team who I have said hi to at lunch because she works in dining services. Before tonight I had just been saying general stuff to her, I don't really remember. But I noticed she was making a specially effort to say I was playing well. Tonight I set next to her on the sideline and asked her about her classes. She told me some stuff about them and then asked me about mine, but I just said they were OK and completely switched the conversation back to her by asking her about her major (something I learned to do at this site). She told me and asked me mine, but in my answer I switched it back to her again. Mine is IA and I said I had no idea what I wanted to do with it, and that unlike science majors the application was more difficult (more jokingly though).
We talked more, and then cheered together for our team, talking about what was going on a little. She started chewing on her fingers and I jokingly pointed it out, but I should have done better by saying something like "Do your fingers taste good" or something... Oh well, next time.
Then when we were walking back she ended up walking next to me, and I didn't try to make it happen like that. I'm not sure if she did or not but it doesn't seem that unlikely. So anyway I found out that she spent her high school time in Lebanon (missionary family)! That is really cool because I am interested in other countries so I can talk about that, plus I lived with my family in another country so I can relate.
I think I didn't do that bad showing interest in her, but I have to tease her more. I guess I should soon start trying to devote less attention to her so I don't seem desperate. Perhaps I can try to talk to another girl on the team or something.
Also, there is this girl in my Spanish class who I reaaaaaally like but I am not doing well with her. I had lunch with her twice but didn't do any of this DJ stuff, I think I kind of messed up. Also, I don't talk with her every class so it would seem weird to suddenly start hitting on her DJ style in class. Also she has a freind who she talks to in Spanish all the time in the class. I don't know if I am going to be able to do anything in regards to her, but if I do I will write it.
So there is this girl on my intramural soccer team who I have said hi to at lunch because she works in dining services. Before tonight I had just been saying general stuff to her, I don't really remember. But I noticed she was making a specially effort to say I was playing well. Tonight I set next to her on the sideline and asked her about her classes. She told me some stuff about them and then asked me about mine, but I just said they were OK and completely switched the conversation back to her by asking her about her major (something I learned to do at this site). She told me and asked me mine, but in my answer I switched it back to her again. Mine is IA and I said I had no idea what I wanted to do with it, and that unlike science majors the application was more difficult (more jokingly though).
We talked more, and then cheered together for our team, talking about what was going on a little. She started chewing on her fingers and I jokingly pointed it out, but I should have done better by saying something like "Do your fingers taste good" or something... Oh well, next time.
Then when we were walking back she ended up walking next to me, and I didn't try to make it happen like that. I'm not sure if she did or not but it doesn't seem that unlikely. So anyway I found out that she spent her high school time in Lebanon (missionary family)! That is really cool because I am interested in other countries so I can talk about that, plus I lived with my family in another country so I can relate.
I think I didn't do that bad showing interest in her, but I have to tease her more. I guess I should soon start trying to devote less attention to her so I don't seem desperate. Perhaps I can try to talk to another girl on the team or something.
Also, there is this girl in my Spanish class who I reaaaaaally like but I am not doing well with her. I had lunch with her twice but didn't do any of this DJ stuff, I think I kind of messed up. Also, I don't talk with her every class so it would seem weird to suddenly start hitting on her DJ style in class. Also she has a freind who she talks to in Spanish all the time in the class. I don't know if I am going to be able to do anything in regards to her, but if I do I will write it.