JohnChops: Approach Journal

[JohnChops]

Alright guys Ive come a long way since my complete overhaul thread and i think its time to get the fvck out of my comfort zone.... finally.

My confidence is high, i molded my body into something amazing, i have a plethora of hobbies and school has been awesome (im a peer bio tutor and a mentor for a couple freshmen!). That last bit here made me pretty damn happy and excited, makes you feel good to be honest.... anyway.

So I never really approached women as much as I wanted too but making my other journal kept me on track and I fulfilled all my goals with the help of some people pushing me along the way and knowing I could come here for advice if I needed it. So I hope this journal pushes me even further.

The main part of that journal was to improve myself and get over my oneitis. Finally I feel like a whole new person and im feeling great. My oneitis was keeping me from having healthy (lol) relations with women because i just felt a hatred towards them but now I just learn to love em! Theres more than one girl out there for ya you just gotta find her!

Another reason I wanted to make this is because my friends are pushing me as well. They were supportive when I was trying to fix myself up about 6 months ago and now they even egg me on to approach women.

Its time to unleash the beast called JohnChops and get out there in the field.

Approach #1

First approach, dont get too excited fellas im starting out small here. So this happened yesterday I had an 8 am Chem lab so im driving to lab and I had a funny feeling in my gut about there even being a lab this week. I get there, park my car, and walk up to my chem lab . Mind you it is 745 am, I am dead tired, and dont feel like talking to anyone.

So this girl was in front of me and I was walking behind her checking emails on my phone and I felt like I was following her because even after I climbed the stairs she was still in front of me and im looking for this room. So her still being in front of me she looks puzzled like she cant find something,... i open.

me- what are ya looking for?
her- my chem lab **room #**
me- ah me too, guess were in the same class then
her- guess so

We find the lab room with a sign on the door "Lab starts next week" So I got up for nothing and went to class for nothing.

Her- how pissed are you ?!
Me- im to tired to be mad lol
her - ha, guess its time to go back to sleep
me- guess so

Me and her walk back down and to the garage together ( i commute) and keep the conversation lite and funny. She told me she was transfering to boston and wanted to be a nurse, and I learned a bit more about her. Amazing how much people will tell you and what you can learn in such a short amount of time. Anyway we are about to part ways....

Her- alright well I guess ill see ya next week, take care!
Me- alrighty byebye
Her- *she gives me a huge smile*

I didnt think anything of it, i just wanted to chat her up. I didnt go in for the kill this time, baby steps ! But it feels good hitting the field.

Well thats approach #1, 1 of many (i hope ).

Where do you guys find the best place to approach? I feel like you can approach anywhere and in any mindset as long as you just go for it but let me know fellas!
Stay posted.

 

[ARrocket]

Looking forward to this!

 

[JohnChops]

AR I hope your quest to get the hotties is going well my man. Thanks for reading.

Approach #2

Alright fellas heres my second approach.

This girl at work, not in my department and who i rarely ever see, talked for a bit in the start of my shift, just really lite small talk. Then we parted ways.

Later in the shift we were on a job together and just had a great conversation so heres what happend. We got on the subject of talking about night clubs so heres where it went from there:

Me- so are you cooking me dinner before or after we hit the club?
Her- whatever you want me to do
Me- You should just make it before so when we're drunk we can eat some good good
Her- thats the best when youre drunk and jsut have to warm up some dinner.
Me- hell yeah it is.
Me- Alrightly whats your number then?
Her- Are you serious ? (With a huge smile, im guessing she said that because im a sarcastic person and she probably thought i was joking lol)
Me- mhm
Her- *her number* ( with a huge smile on her face and she looked a bit flustered)
Me- alright ill call ya bye.
her- bye :]

Not bad for my second approach, the rapport was really good and she was initiating kino (touching) so that was a huge sign to ASK HER FOR HER DIGETS!
So I got em! Pretty happy.

2 Approaches
1 Phones number
0 Dates

 

[JohnChops]

So with this girl from work i asked her out twice and both times she said she was busy with work. So im letting her be for a little bit until she comes to me.

So last night was a turning point in my whole DJ life . I learned something, you CANNOT count on this site for everything. Whats written here is great but as Pook said you can't count on "manuel" for ever. Sometimes you have to look at whats in front of you and trust your gut. If you try to muster up all the DJ crap from here your mind clutters and you freeze.

Id rather trust my gut in the field and try to apply what i learned here as much as possible. But sometimes life throws you a curve ball and then all you have is your gut, nothing else, to go on. So guys get out there, you arent learning if youre not in the field.

-J

 

[ARrocket]

What's up with chemistry girl? Have ya'll 'bonded' yet?

 

[sageproduct]

Betas make covalent bonds and share their electrons w/b1tches
True DJ's make ionic bonds and insert their extra electrons into those sluts' empty shells

 

[JohnChops]

Betas make covalent bonds and share their electrons w/b1tches
True DJ's make ionic bonds and insert their extra electrons into those sluts' empty shells

More like us being both polar molecules and mixing in perfect soluble properties

Anyway, AR she ended up dropping the class and i havent fvcking seen her :cuss: shouldve gotten her number in the first place. My excuse for that one : me being dead tired at 7 am like a normal 19 year old lol.