So I'll attach the images from the correspondence. He said that he would talk to me confidentially for free. Well, I see this a year almost a year after he sent it and I think he is encouraging Blue Pill? I don't know but his reaction says a lot. Here is a link to his book. https://www.amazon.com/Walking-Through-Pain-Joseph-Haskamp/dp/1513620282
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Joe Haskamp, Author of Walking Through The Pain, Reaches out to me. Thoughts?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
touma.akagi
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It looks like it. But clearly Blue Pill must be working for him. Either that or his private life is secretly unsuccessful, lol. I'd probably read his book and then want the time I spent on it back.
Just remember that what works for some men will probably never work for others. Eric Edgemont put it best when he wrote " 'Be yourself' is good advice for people who don't need it." And there's more that it applies to. Men who are successful say that to men who aren't, and the men who aren't think that being their current self is good enough, and they get frustrated when Be Yourself doesn't work. It's only when they put the AFC behaviors and mindsets that no in-person friendship ever brought to their attention to death that they'll be successful
Just remember that what works for some men will probably never work for others. Eric Edgemont put it best when he wrote " 'Be yourself' is good advice for people who don't need it." And there's more that it applies to. Men who are successful say that to men who aren't, and the men who aren't think that being their current self is good enough, and they get frustrated when Be Yourself doesn't work. It's only when they put the AFC behaviors and mindsets that no in-person friendship ever brought to their attention to death that they'll be successful