Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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I've stated I wasn't Jewish, didn't seem to matter. That was what I thought was strange. The ladies are 25 - 29. Pretty aggressive too. A few given me their numbers without me even asking and want to meet in Manhattan. Just looking how to navigate this in an economic and logistical way.
Yes, it doesn’t matter for dating or an LTR, unless you get serious about a marriage and then they want you to convert…
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It's so weird. The only draw back is they are in NYC or NJ. NJ is hard, but NYC isn't that bad. One already tried to play a game. She lives in Queens, and I said we should meet up in New York. She said she doesn't know when or if she'll be in New York any time soon. She then messaged me back and said let's meet on Wednesday. Another lady, who is Brooklyn is willing to meet in NY, 23. Gave me her number and said let's chat for a bit and set something up. I guess some ladies still use the phone for talking. Since I am having little luck in CT, I guess NYC here I come. Just concerned about the traveling costs. I've looked up the bars in New York that have happy hour after 4pm every day to keep the drink cost low. Driving is actually cheaper and faster than the train, so I picked up some Groupon parking discounts as well. We'll see. Don't want to jinx anything.
