"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jan Term Studying Abroad (Where Would You Go?)

foomee

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My school has a thing where we take a single class for the entire month of January and students often study abroad during that month. There were 5 different places I was interested in going, but I'd like other peoples' feedback. What would you pick and why? Or have you been there and what was it like?

London, England & Edinburgh, Scotland
Chile & Easter Island
Ireland
Spain
Australia
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ken785

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they have programs like that at my school where they go for an entire semester...bad thing is classes are limited and it costs like 7000 dollars for a semester.
 

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I guess it depends on how different an area you'd like to see. I'd personally go to Chile/Easter Island simply because it's a place I would never usually go even on vacation. Plus I can manage in Spanish so it'd be cool to learn that a bit better. Ireland and Spain would probably be awesome as well!
 

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Ken785 said:
they have programs like that at my school where they go for an entire semester...bad thing is classes are limited and it costs like 7000 dollars for a semester.

Yes, we do have classes like that for the whole semester, but I can't afford to go for an entire semester; meaning my class schedule is already set and limited which leaves me no choice to miss out on a semester if I want to graduate on time. $7000 a semester is pretty good. The trip to Australia is $4000 and that's just for the month of January; maybe it's cos I'm at a private school, dunno.
 

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I used to live in Australia. It really depends where you go, and what time of year.

Personally, I'd hit up Spain. I have some spanish heritage, so that is my dream.

Madrid, or Barcelona. Perhaps somewhere on the coast of the mediteranean(gibraltar?), or something.

Choose the place that is the complete opposite of where you are now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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