"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
J-Land is Beta-Land
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I lived in Japan. Can't agree more. The younger generations might change that.
In Japan when a female has a kid. She's expected to become house wife.
Also, it's not rare to find japanese wife in club for sex/new man
50% of man don't touch their wife
I think 75% were sexually not satisfied
1 on 7 cheated.
Also young male dress more like female (makeup, hair, man purse)
Japanese porn and tv is twisted.
They also came with the term: "human herbivour"... kids who prefers tv,robot,games, and live with their parents, no gf,no lover, no sex
I loved Japan....but yeah that part is ****ed up
In Japan when a female has a kid. She's expected to become house wife.
Also, it's not rare to find japanese wife in club for sex/new man
50% of man don't touch their wife
I think 75% were sexually not satisfied
1 on 7 cheated.
Also young male dress more like female (makeup, hair, man purse)
Japanese porn and tv is twisted.
They also came with the term: "human herbivour"... kids who prefers tv,robot,games, and live with their parents, no gf,no lover, no sex
I loved Japan....but yeah that part is ****ed up
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Despite their shortcomings J women are still 1000x better than any western broad
http://www.oddities123.com/girls-of-japan/
J land is flake land. Try getting those people to actually show up for a date, event or anything outside of work, male or female, they're as a bad as Brazilians. Also, in my experience, Japanese women are as weird, awkward and shy as the men. Chinese are much more forward and direct and will just eventually tell you what they think, Japanese will just say nothing and let a facade keep going to save face. As far as people go, they are less compatible with the Western countries than China or Korea, their people are far more awkward and nerdy bordering on creepy. I find that's generally why J-fans are all weirdos and the teachers who go there to be extreme otakus. Rarely do you find the macho type ESL'ers that you'll find in China or South America. Most Japanese ESL teachers are lanky, awkward weirdos who are painful to be around at the best of times. I really did not have a good experience over there. Your results may vary.
Likely, they'll be invaded by China shortly for the women. The thing Japs would benefit from is a serious amount of race pairing/mixing despite their outright xenophobia. Japan as a country has basically done what all nerds do: lock themselves in a small space, fantasize about hot girls with big boobs, watch anime and hope for the best.
http://www.oddities123.com/girls-of-japan/
J land is flake land. Try getting those people to actually show up for a date, event or anything outside of work, male or female, they're as a bad as Brazilians. Also, in my experience, Japanese women are as weird, awkward and shy as the men. Chinese are much more forward and direct and will just eventually tell you what they think, Japanese will just say nothing and let a facade keep going to save face. As far as people go, they are less compatible with the Western countries than China or Korea, their people are far more awkward and nerdy bordering on creepy. I find that's generally why J-fans are all weirdos and the teachers who go there to be extreme otakus. Rarely do you find the macho type ESL'ers that you'll find in China or South America. Most Japanese ESL teachers are lanky, awkward weirdos who are painful to be around at the best of times. I really did not have a good experience over there. Your results may vary.
This is universal but most women in the 1st world just outright refuse the role.
Likely, they'll be invaded by China shortly for the women. The thing Japs would benefit from is a serious amount of race pairing/mixing despite their outright xenophobia. Japan as a country has basically done what all nerds do: lock themselves in a small space, fantasize about hot girls with big boobs, watch anime and hope for the best.
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