I've just joined Security. Need some pointers.

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

In a bid to do something out of the ordinary I've signed up to work as a security personnel...doing work such as patrols, crowd controlling (bouncer) and supervising. I also have a few friends working in the security business.

Now here are a few things I would want to achieve while in this line of work:
1. Confidence and assertiveness
2. Motivation to train more
3. Banish fear and grow some balls
4. Learn more on social dynamics on a different point of view
5. Connections and social proof

More importantly:
1. Get rid of wussiness
2. Get some hot girls (as long as i dont get my pretty face smashed in lol)
3. Get work anywhere as I want to travel

I've just finished doing most of the coursework and due to work in the next few weeks.

Now here's the thing. I'm not you typical bouncer jock....get this.. I am just over 60kgs and standing at 5'7 Filipino guy. Though I had many people saying that I look like I weigh about 75kgs because of my physique. I want to be able to weigh around 70kgs and ripped by the time I will start work (in over a month) So that is roughly 2-3 kgs a week and I have gained nearly 5 in a week once (my weight is always fluctuating so we'll see how things go). I also do muay thai and lift regularly. I've faired well against a 80kg jock in a streetfight and won (Even though Ive been in a few, I dont pick fights...that was totally out of necessity and selfdefence) So I think I should be able to handle myself out there.

ANY BOUNCERS OR SECURITY GUYS HERE?

As this is a DJ site I would like to see some input on how to maximise success with women from this angle and how to get myself in shape physically and mentally. And other issues regarding security like drugs, moral issues, friends etc.

 

[Man Of Adventure]

In a bid to do something out of the ordinary I've signed up to work as a security personnel...doing work such as patrols, crowd controlling (bouncer) and supervising. I also have a few friends working in the security business.

Now here are a few things I would want to achieve while in this line of work:
1. Confidence and assertiveness
2. Motivation to train more
3. Banish fear and grow some balls
4. Learn more on social dynamics on a different point of view
5. Connections and social proof

More importantly:
1. Get rid of wussiness
2. Get some hot girls (as long as i dont get my pretty face smashed in lol)
3. Get work anywhere as I want to travel

I've just finished doing most of the coursework and due to work in the next few weeks.

Now here's the thing. I'm not you typical bouncer jock....get this.. I am just over 60kgs and standing at 5'7 Filipino guy. Though I had many people saying that I look like I weigh about 75kgs because of my physique. I want to be able to weigh around 70kgs and ripped by the time I will start work (in over a month) So that is roughly 2-3 kgs a week and I have gained nearly 5 in a week once (my weight is always fluctuating so we'll see how things go). I also do muay thai and lift regularly. I've faired well against a 80kg jock in a streetfight and won (Even though Ive been in a few, I dont pick fights...that was totally out of necessity and selfdefence) So I think I should be able to handle myself out there.

ANY BOUNCERS OR SECURITY GUYS HERE?

As this is a DJ site I would like to see some input on how to maximise success with women from this angle and how to get myself in shape physically and mentally. And other issues regarding security like drugs, moral issues, friends etc.

Its a whole different story when you get shot at. Your life will be changed forever. Thats all I feel like saying. Willpower does not stop bullets.

 

[Man Of Adventure]

My pointer: Always carry extra ammo and first aid.

 

[Desdinova]

Anything else...