"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've Decided It Is Time

Johnnie5

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It's time for a change

of course relationship has crashed and burned and its the kick up the arse i need to get my sh1t together , been thinking of it for quite a while but being the lazy cahn i am , it hasnt happened

today i survived with no soft drink and no fast food , I work on the road so its a case of whatever is easy , so now i need to take my lunch with me every day and drink water only

MUST eat breakfast at home every morning , cereals as again on the road i tend to grab whatever is easy

stay off the booze where possible , too many rum and cokes arent good :p :p

from tuesday ( heading away for the weekend) planning on getting up at 6am and hitting the bike for 25 mins as there is a cycleway near my house that wil fit in nicely , get home , shower and eat breakfast

join the local Gym which this month has a join of $1

so why all this , as per above its time for a realistic change in life

5 years ago being 25 i was hitting the gym regularly after a breakup ;) and was 70 Kg and 14% , i then had a car accident and 12 days in hospital i came out 63Kg and 11% super skinny

I remember travelling 3.5 years ago and was hitting 75Kg and the fat was rising , then getting back from travel 2 years ago it was worse

Just pulled these figures out that i have kept occasionally

DDMMYY
180404 87.4 31.5
100504 88.8 30.5

120405 84.8 28
130805 84.2 28
150804 83.8 29
160405 83.2 28.5
200405 83'4 27
081005 85.8 28

up to the current

121005 85 29

of course there is the female reason of wanting to fit back into some clothes which are 32 in waist , where as now i'm pushing out of a 34 , but the main reasons is to feel a whole lot better, less tired and of course look better

from there get the rest of the life back in order but this is the 1st step and i feel the most important

the only flaw in it all is a 2 week trip at the end of november but by then i will have a good month under my belt and will just have to keep a close eye on what i consume on those 2 weeks , but i must do it now rather than put it off till then
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CLOONEY

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Good on you! Plus you are in one of the best cities in the world to be single again! At 30 in Sydney, you are just hitting the prime of single life!
 

Johnnie5

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Good on you! Plus you are in one of the best cities in the world to be single again! At 30 in Sydney, you are just hitting the prime of single life!
thanks mate

i am slowly realising that

I am 30 , bought my own house a year ago , mortgage and have a mate living here renting a room, single, never married with no kids , in reality thats a pretty good way to be and should be highly sought after ,

the girl i just split with her friends have been kicking her for giving me up , friends that have never said anything to her ever about her decisions she has made , time to live and enjoy my life :)

i think soon enough i will hit the bootcamp

i have a good mate here that is also single and needs some help also , so hoping we can both get it together and support each other
 

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Originally posted by Johnnie5
thanks mate

i am slowly realising that

I am 30 , bought my own house a year ago , mortgage and have a mate living here renting a room, single, never married with no kids , in reality thats a pretty good way to be and should be highly sought after ,

the girl i just split with her friends have been kicking her for giving me up , friends that have never said anything to her ever about her decisions she has made , time to live and enjoy my life :)

i think soon enough i will hit the bootcamp

i have a good mate here that is also single and needs some help also , so hoping we can both get it together and support each other
Yeah, definately helps! When I first started, a mate of mine did it with me also (well sorta), he wasnt nearly as into it as me, and didnt apply the theory he learnt nearly as much. Probably explains why I have dated over 10 times the woman he has.

Still, he is good to ask for advice on many things. Now get too it, but most of all ENJOY IT!

Let me know how it goes.
 

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BTW, I think mods should move this to the mature man forum. Will get more advice, support and responses there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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