Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Master Don Juan
Hello there guys
I had the happiness of being 'enlightened' this week, and I want to share the light with you.
How many of you folks have read Survivor's post : Forget About The Girls In Your Past?
I have read it about 4 our 5 times.
If you asked me 1 week ago, what I thought of it, I would say:
" He has a point, but I think that there are a lot of exceptions. I found a exception myself and I'm working on it. "
I was wrong.
I had a opportunity to blow things up.
But I didn't.
Most of us,HS DJs, only decided to improve ourselves and get more women after we blew things that were 'supposed to be all right' with a nice chick.
So we started improving, to never happen things like that again.
We started feeling good about ourselves, but deep down our hearts, that little crush is still there, and the belief that our new selves could have more chances with that Sunshine girl is still planted in our minds.
I had that.
Thank god I found the light.
Girls, that meet as an AFC, will notice you changing, and will like that, but you will always be an AFC to them.
It's the first impression, that leaves the most important mark.
Accept it.
It hurts, yes it does.
But while you do not accept it, you won't be able to become a Real DJ.
Because a DJ, does not fool himself, nor wastes his time with women who are almost impossible to catch.
Why waste hours on one girl if in minutes you can meet a new one and get a # ?
Why having such emotional catastrophes when we are able to pursue more and more happiness and novelties to our lives?
There's this girl, a 9.75 , one of the hottest of my entire school (600 students,+/-300 girls).
I fell for her in the first time I saw her(even before classes started).
I became friends with her, and had my opportunity.
I was an AFC and wasted it.
Then a was a Stupid AFC and had a fight with her.
I f*cked everything up.
Now I'm friends with her again, after 8 months without talking to each other, we're like best friends, but I had the illusion that I would get her to leave her boyfriend and replace him.
That's sad.
I wasted my hopes, my time, on something that would never come true.
It wasn't all a waste of time, now our friendship is very nice.
But I'm so glad I realized I can't love her.
I just can't ! I can't see her as more than a friend.
This was my little example... I think everyone has a example of its own.
But, as I'm a DJ, I learned something from it, and it's something so obvious that shouldn't be needed to post, yet I want to reinforce this idea to all of you:
Girls that knew when you were an AFC:
Use them to practice your conversation skills.
To become a great conversationalist, practice with them, there's no pressure if you say something too weird you'll both laugh and forget about it.
And, the most important things, the Sunshine Girls, the ones who ownED your heart, become good friends with them.
Being good friends with hot, sexy women will make you get used to them, and you'll become more comfortable around other hot,sexy girls.
Also, use them as social proofs.
This is the reason I posted.
Walk around the school with them.
Have lunch with them.
Be seen talking to them.
You'll get noticed
You'll be respected
Other chicks will think: " If he's walking with her is because he's cool/good looking/funny/special "
Don't be too nice, practice your ****y and funny habilities on them, so that you don't look gay.
You'll become more respected, and people will envy you.
Tuesday, I realized that me and that 9,75 were meant to be friends only, and started to enjoy that, and using all the benefits of that friendship.
On Wednesday I went with her and a friend of her (a 9) to have lunch at a bakery near the school, and passed by a lot of people waiting for their buses, including an 8 I hit on some months ago.
Guess what, out of blue, she starts talking to me, and it's more open and interested than before.
I can't wait till next year, when the new babes see me walking around with these cuties.
Ladies see that you're used to being around a hot woman, so they know that their silly games and their foolish pride have no effect on you, because you can just leave them talking to theirselves and go talk to the 9s.
I know it's easier said than done, but the light is out there...
If I read this post one week ago, I wouldn't believe it was me who wrote it.
Now I know the power of the Light, the Great Light of Don Juan, who enlightens the path to women, fortune and happiness in life.
Hear my advice, and take it to heart.
It will only make your life better.
BBB
I had the happiness of being 'enlightened' this week, and I want to share the light with you.
How many of you folks have read Survivor's post : Forget About The Girls In Your Past?
I have read it about 4 our 5 times.
If you asked me 1 week ago, what I thought of it, I would say:
" He has a point, but I think that there are a lot of exceptions. I found a exception myself and I'm working on it. "
I was wrong.
I had a opportunity to blow things up.
But I didn't.
Most of us,HS DJs, only decided to improve ourselves and get more women after we blew things that were 'supposed to be all right' with a nice chick.
So we started improving, to never happen things like that again.
We started feeling good about ourselves, but deep down our hearts, that little crush is still there, and the belief that our new selves could have more chances with that Sunshine girl is still planted in our minds.
I had that.
Thank god I found the light.
Girls, that meet as an AFC, will notice you changing, and will like that, but you will always be an AFC to them.
It's the first impression, that leaves the most important mark.
Accept it.
It hurts, yes it does.
But while you do not accept it, you won't be able to become a Real DJ.
Because a DJ, does not fool himself, nor wastes his time with women who are almost impossible to catch.
Why waste hours on one girl if in minutes you can meet a new one and get a # ?
Why having such emotional catastrophes when we are able to pursue more and more happiness and novelties to our lives?
There's this girl, a 9.75 , one of the hottest of my entire school (600 students,+/-300 girls).
I fell for her in the first time I saw her(even before classes started).
I became friends with her, and had my opportunity.
I was an AFC and wasted it.
Then a was a Stupid AFC and had a fight with her.
I f*cked everything up.
Now I'm friends with her again, after 8 months without talking to each other, we're like best friends, but I had the illusion that I would get her to leave her boyfriend and replace him.
That's sad.
I wasted my hopes, my time, on something that would never come true.
It wasn't all a waste of time, now our friendship is very nice.
But I'm so glad I realized I can't love her.
I just can't ! I can't see her as more than a friend.
This was my little example... I think everyone has a example of its own.
But, as I'm a DJ, I learned something from it, and it's something so obvious that shouldn't be needed to post, yet I want to reinforce this idea to all of you:
Girls that knew when you were an AFC:
Use them to practice your conversation skills.
To become a great conversationalist, practice with them, there's no pressure if you say something too weird you'll both laugh and forget about it.
And, the most important things, the Sunshine Girls, the ones who ownED your heart, become good friends with them.
Being good friends with hot, sexy women will make you get used to them, and you'll become more comfortable around other hot,sexy girls.
Also, use them as social proofs.
This is the reason I posted.
Walk around the school with them.
Have lunch with them.
Be seen talking to them.
You'll get noticed
You'll be respected
Other chicks will think: " If he's walking with her is because he's cool/good looking/funny/special "
Don't be too nice, practice your ****y and funny habilities on them, so that you don't look gay.
You'll become more respected, and people will envy you.
Tuesday, I realized that me and that 9,75 were meant to be friends only, and started to enjoy that, and using all the benefits of that friendship.
On Wednesday I went with her and a friend of her (a 9) to have lunch at a bakery near the school, and passed by a lot of people waiting for their buses, including an 8 I hit on some months ago.
Guess what, out of blue, she starts talking to me, and it's more open and interested than before.
I can't wait till next year, when the new babes see me walking around with these cuties.
Ladies see that you're used to being around a hot woman, so they know that their silly games and their foolish pride have no effect on you, because you can just leave them talking to theirselves and go talk to the 9s.
I know it's easier said than done, but the light is out there...
If I read this post one week ago, I wouldn't believe it was me who wrote it.
Now I know the power of the Light, the Great Light of Don Juan, who enlightens the path to women, fortune and happiness in life.
Hear my advice, and take it to heart.
It will only make your life better.
BBB
