"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's the ride, guys...

Pozitron

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If you're being real in life you notice it kind of sucks, at least at times.
You get a bad grade. A girl rejects you with some bullsh** excuse. You don't find a purpose. You're being honest with your family and you get into all sorts of aggressive arguments with no meaning . There are people who don't have something to eat or drink or live into a 3rd world. You get those moments when you think all falls apart. You procrastinate. You don't know why you can't change. Your dream doesn't fit with your reality. There are people acting against your values. You get low when you see others being happy cause you think you miss something. You may not be healthy or be hurt. You may have a problem. Your may find your friends are not your friends in fact. People do sh** that can affect you. There is corruption . You fall, crush and burn. You have 1309583 things to complain about but never think about what you're grateful. You try to change people so that they'll be like you when in fact they don't wanna change. You just f*** up. You can't understand how the he** you can be happy when in your family arguments arise so frequently....

There are a lot of things that are messed up. The world is a little messed up.
Life is a paradox.. you want something and then life comes and fu** up your expectations.

Don't give me the I'm an optimist and in failure there is a lesson. It may be but sometimes it stings as sh**. You know it. I know it. We know that life ain't always beautiful. We know s*** just happens sometimes... just like that. No reason. You try to understand it but you only change the past. Think about that cause it's true.

So what's you point, Poz?
My point is that life brings you challenges, changes, fuk* up with your expectations and s*** happens, no doubt about it. Don't ignore it.
My point is that happens, not always, but sometimes does .. sometimes maybe more than you deserve or more than it's fair.

My point, bros,... it's that in the end.. despite all that life is a beautiful ride ( as the song goes). Life is an amazing journey.
I ask you these:
If you don't fail how can you ever win?
If you would be perfect wouldn't you be bored to death?
If you didn't have bad moments would you ever appreciate the good ones?
Would you have ever been here if you hadn't been there?

It can always be worse if only you think about it.

So when any kind of **** happens in your life just remember it's all part of the journey. It's all the ride. And the ride it's just awesome.

So try to have an awesome journey, not a perfect step.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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StormScar

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Beautifully written. I can't tell you how many times I also feel like tht, but unfortunately u cant do **** to change it. I partially agree tht life might be boring if it would have been perfect, but tbh Id rather not have some of this sad annoying **** tht happens everyday, you know?

However, this whole:'life wud be boring if it was perfect' is also to make society accept easier all the injustice tht happens as a part of our normal life. Kinda how peasants were thought in the middle age it's right for em to be poor and work their asses off for a stupid noble.
 

BigSmooth

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I see that you're taking my words to the heart, nice.


~B-Smooth
 
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