"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's midnight and I'm starving, what to eat?

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I did some jiujitsu earlier in the evening, came back home for a bit then went to the gym to lift weight. I'm now starving. I don't like eating before I do MMA or workout because having food in my stomach then exerting myself makes me nauteous.

So now it's midnight, I'm getting ready for bed, but have a growling stomach. What kinds of things are okay to eat right now? I have some skinless chicken breast in the fridge, was thinking of steaming or boiling some vegetables and making a baked potato(in the microwave of course) and calling it a night.

Is this bad?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cottage cheese is something that is recomended around here as a late night snack for the caesin protein it contains. I know it tastes bad but really its not THAT hard to eat and it is very healthy.

Also Almonds are pretty good but don't have too many as nuts are very calorie dense foods but they are also very filling so you can get the stomach growl out with just a handful.
 

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You want a blend of protein and fats before bedtime. Try not to touch carbs, they're the things that keep you awake and also put jelly in the belly when eaten before bed.

Cheese is great before bed, milk is good, a protein shake is great.

What I do personally sometimes is cut off a big slab of cheddar cheese and gnaw on it for awhile.
 

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My mate introduced me to the wonderful world of ramen noodles in a cup. Just boil water and pour it in with the given seasoning and you're right to go after 2 minutes.
 

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noodles = carbs = bad

Sure they're an awesome snack at night, but if you're into fitness at all, you would know that you're not going to keep your body fat % down by eating noodles at midnight.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cheatz said:
My mate introduced me to the wonderful world of ramen noodles in a cup. Just boil water and pour it in with the given seasoning and you're right to go after 2 minutes.
Well, for a quick meal, maybe, but have you read the label on a cup of those things? Not the best thing to be eating all the time.

As noted earlier, cottage cheese, some milk with protein, almonds, PB, etc etc. And again, a few carbs aren't going to hurt. Just dont over do it.
 

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I usually have the same dilemma as I always get hungry late at night. My current options tend to be:

Chicken fillet - either with gravy and veg, seasoned with cajun spice and grilled, or broken up and mixed with salad and a teaspoon of (low fat) mayonaise.

Tuna - sometimes with salad and low fat mayo.

Egg white omelette with mushrooms and ham.

Steak or beef - on it's own.

It gets boring, but they suffice.
 

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im getting a little more used to the cottage cheese, but what do you guys eat it with?

as for milk, isnt milk mostly carbs? lactose high, at least?
and im guessing oatmeal is a bad choice at night then eh...
 

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I eat my cottage cheese PLAIN, with a pinch of pepper. It doesn't bother me one bit, nor does most everything else I eat. I pretty much eat it all.
 

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Quiksilver said:
You want a blend of protein and fats before bedtime. Try not to touch carbs, they're the things that keep you awake and also put jelly in the belly when eaten before bed.
How long before bed? I usually end going to bed around midnight or 1 am, so when should I cut off the carbs (or limit them to a very small amount)?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I do half scoop egg white powder, half whey, and a full scoop of caseine. ~50g protein total.

I drink maybe 90% of it because i nearly always wake up and have to pee at some point in night and i finish it in a couple seconds before i get back in bed. I figure it gives me another small burst of anabolism from the egg and whey since by the time i wake up all that's left me still is the caseine.

I wouldn't take cottage cheese before bed because of the sugar.
 

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mrRuckus said:
I do half scoop egg white powder, half whey, and a full scoop of caseine. ~50g protein total.

I drink maybe 90% of it because i nearly always wake up and have to pee at some point in night and i finish it in a couple seconds before i get back in bed. I figure it gives me another small burst of anabolism from the egg and whey since by the time i wake up all that's left me still is the caseine.

I wouldn't take cottage cheese before bed because of the sugar.
I had some PB, whey and a few carbs. Carbs have never hurt me before, and they'll get burned first before my body digs into my protein/fat stores. Plus my protein was good for the day, and I never OVER do protein. I'm at about 1.5g/lb and that's good enough for me.

I used to do that, where I would have something before bed, or ready to go, and when I woke up i'd chug it down and go back to bed. In fact I may start doing that again, if my gains aren't coming like i'd like.

I personally sleep 8hrs+, so I need all the fuel I can get so I stay in a anabolic state, since I dont get up now to slam anything down.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cottage cheese?? yummy as it may be, does'nt cheese give you nightmares??
i personally enjoy eating cheese before bed, as it makes my dreams alot more intersting :) lol
 

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just so suave said:
Cottage cheese?? yummy as it may be, does'nt cheese give you nightmares??
i personally enjoy eating cheese before bed, as it makes my dreams alot more intersting :) lol
I just hope you never get to meet the old hag. :nervous:
 

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I ALWAYS have a dozen hard-boiled eggs chillin' in the fridge for just such occasions.

Peel and eat: easy.

Also, there's ALWAYS a "bunch" of celery around.

Celery and eggs... miracles.
 
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