"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's like a foreign language

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I'm not the first one to note this similarity but the more I learn about the game and seduction the more it seems like a foreign language. You gotta have a vocabulary and good grammar knowledge to use this language effectively.

Starting out in the game is analogous to going to France, never spoken french previosly trying to find the directions to a tourist attraction. You know enough words to ask a cab driver the question but you don't have enough skill to understand his response.

In the game, you perform a certain action characteristic of the game guru (even though with a noticable "accent"), girl calls your bluff and hammers you with responses, but you just don't understand them yet to warrant an appropriate response.

Anybody feel me on this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So pimp its scary

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Ya, it definately is a whole other language... the only difference is that some people learn the language, but will always have the accent.

Whereas, anyone dedicated to learning the language of seduction, once they truly 'get' what's going on, the accent is lost instantly.

Well, one way or the other, some women like a guy with an accent.
 
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