Some guys are born good looking, some become rich n famous, while others work out and have 6 pack abs............sorry to say its just not enough!!.
Recently the seduction community infiltrated the popular world. No longer is it kept underground, the secrets are out. This is due to the media (radio, internet, books, TV shows-the pick up artist, keys to the VIP, movies, youtube videos, etc).
If you spend enough time in the field, eventually you are bound to get struck by lightening, but can you make it strike consistently?
It seems everyone with a computer is now a wannabe pickup artist just because they read a few e-books, watched some online streams, read messages on various boards, and got lucky on a social net-working site. You know the types, they can recite the M3 model backwards, they know all the cheesy pickup lines, they can spew all the vernaculars and are aware of all the terminology and acronyms. Some have been to seminars, attended a coaching session, or did some research. They did this all in less than a few months, assume they are up to speed and are ready to offer pearls of their new found wisdom to anyone that will listen. You see them post opinions, most of which are void of any details or specifics. Opinions are like A-holes……everyone has one. They is so much bad or generic advice out there (all of which conflicts with one another) it gets confusing..
For the record, I am here to say……..it’s just not enough. Being born good looking or rich & famous is a great attribute and does give you a huge edge on the competition, but lets face it not everyone can be that fortunate. Knowledge without field testing, calibration, and application is nothing more than a dream. Like most things in life becoming an expert requires a lot of research, tons of practice and a commitment to the process. It’s the difference between buying a lottery ticket vrs. being a self made multi-millionaire. A person can go out and spew a few canned openers, attempt the kino escalation and fly threw the checklist and still only attain mediocrity. They should be applauded for their efforts but seldom do they get rewarded. GAME (by my definition) is having all the various aspects in tune and appearing natural. Nexting, roll offs, dead sets, moving on, etc all add up and take its toll. It is far easier to eject than to stay the coarse. It also saves a lot of self respect if you are uncomfortable. To that I say : what did you learn from that attempt, how can you improve, why do you really think they rejected you. I am not saying analyze it to the point of obsession, but do make mental notes and allow for calibration.
You have to really adopt this way of life to truly see the rewards it can bring down the road and not just from the seduction aspect. Knowledge is power…but the application of that power (used correctly) will separate you from the dreamers. Regurgitating pickup lines has its limitations. If you are not afraid of some hard work and are willing to go the distance, you may be ready for a change for the better. When the student exceeds the teacher’s expectations, a star is born.
Recently the seduction community infiltrated the popular world. No longer is it kept underground, the secrets are out. This is due to the media (radio, internet, books, TV shows-the pick up artist, keys to the VIP, movies, youtube videos, etc).
If you spend enough time in the field, eventually you are bound to get struck by lightening, but can you make it strike consistently?
It seems everyone with a computer is now a wannabe pickup artist just because they read a few e-books, watched some online streams, read messages on various boards, and got lucky on a social net-working site. You know the types, they can recite the M3 model backwards, they know all the cheesy pickup lines, they can spew all the vernaculars and are aware of all the terminology and acronyms. Some have been to seminars, attended a coaching session, or did some research. They did this all in less than a few months, assume they are up to speed and are ready to offer pearls of their new found wisdom to anyone that will listen. You see them post opinions, most of which are void of any details or specifics. Opinions are like A-holes……everyone has one. They is so much bad or generic advice out there (all of which conflicts with one another) it gets confusing..
For the record, I am here to say……..it’s just not enough. Being born good looking or rich & famous is a great attribute and does give you a huge edge on the competition, but lets face it not everyone can be that fortunate. Knowledge without field testing, calibration, and application is nothing more than a dream. Like most things in life becoming an expert requires a lot of research, tons of practice and a commitment to the process. It’s the difference between buying a lottery ticket vrs. being a self made multi-millionaire. A person can go out and spew a few canned openers, attempt the kino escalation and fly threw the checklist and still only attain mediocrity. They should be applauded for their efforts but seldom do they get rewarded. GAME (by my definition) is having all the various aspects in tune and appearing natural. Nexting, roll offs, dead sets, moving on, etc all add up and take its toll. It is far easier to eject than to stay the coarse. It also saves a lot of self respect if you are uncomfortable. To that I say : what did you learn from that attempt, how can you improve, why do you really think they rejected you. I am not saying analyze it to the point of obsession, but do make mental notes and allow for calibration.
You have to really adopt this way of life to truly see the rewards it can bring down the road and not just from the seduction aspect. Knowledge is power…but the application of that power (used correctly) will separate you from the dreamers. Regurgitating pickup lines has its limitations. If you are not afraid of some hard work and are willing to go the distance, you may be ready for a change for the better. When the student exceeds the teacher’s expectations, a star is born.
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