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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Peaks&Valleys

Master Don Juan

Feb 21, 2021

Hey guys, how y'all doing?

I see things have changed a bit since I was last on here. Lots of new people, which is great. Missed this forum, just stopping in to say hello. Glad to see guys out there still learning, seeing, understanding and then swallowing that pill. It's a horrible thing to live your life in fear and uncertainty. "Knowledge is power" as they say. Never give up on your journey.

Peace, love, and respect...and no fvcks given,

-P&V

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.