"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's all about the game....and how you play it

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Just some reflections:

It's all about the game....and how you play it.

Life is interesting, life is fun. However, if you get your ass served to you
by a woman, it can turn out less than fun....

But if life and love is like a chess match.....you have a choice to accept victory and
"defeat" with the same gracefull attitude. Or the choice to be arrogante in victory and
bitter in defeat...

In my opinion, when you get "hurt" about a perceived "loss", your emotions are too involved. In fact,
your ego is calling the shots. Nobody wants to be an unemotional robot....but if you can control
your emotions.....if you can remove ego...

...you can then navigate the chessboard of life and love gracefully and skillfully....

Women tend to be more Machiavellian than men....women will get over you quicker because of their heypergamos nature.....men can learn a lot from this. Men need to develop more this attitude...

I repeat: life is fun, life is interesting. It's ALL a fvcking game.

women are an opportunity to practice game. Every defeat, every victory, every text message....it's a moment to flex the game muscles. When does the game end? It doesn't....the game with practice gets internalised so much....that game becomes second nature. Game becomes you. You become the game. It's all about the game. And how you play it.

who's going to make it?

 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I saw a documentary recently on Lemmy. Very interesting dude.
 

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I was expecting HHH to walk out

Good post though
 
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