"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its All about Style...

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I hear that alot. At first I didn't believe it. I've always been huge on the GAME aspect of picking up women, but I never clicked on the style points. That is up until recently. I woke up one morning and said "What the hell, if it to be...it will be me" I went to the mall with my female friends and we rebuilt my entire wardrobe from scratch. Ironically, they would tell me that what attracted them to guys was completely the opposite of what I was comfortable with, nonetheless I went along with it.

Some things I noticed that I found interesting:

The made me get a pedicure,...now this seems like a no brainer now, but at the time I was sitting there like.."my feet look ok...ya'll are dumb" but now I see the difference.

They had me go with a more laid back yet co-ordinated style. I went from saggy wide leg jeans to, smaller- straight legged jeans. The jeans they usually picked out were faded, ripped, and had holes in it...but they universally agreed that it looked fantastic. All my basketball shorts and saggy jeans were replaced with cargo pants. No brainer there.

Shirts, my shirts went from long to form fitting. They would tell me that it accents the pants more if my shirt isn't extremely long, and that it draws more attention to my **** (TRUE). Most of my shirts now are plain Polo shirts that go well in any occasion, and look good with cargos, and jeans.

Accessories:

This is what was interesting....I told them I wanted colognes that I could put on a three or four day rotation and all have completely different tones, that way its always a mystery what I'm wearing. We narrowed it down to 3 colognes; BVGARI Black, Versace Dreamer, and Salvatore Ferragamo. All completely different, all reminded the ladies of good times in their lives. I was gonna go with something more well know...but I REALLY love these fragrances..if you get time check them out.

Next came the watches, I normally don't even wear watches or any jewelry so it came to a shock to me that they said that watches and bracelets were something that they look for in a man, We settled on 3 watches, all Fossil (theres something about fossil) One Black, one stainless silver, and one leather with a silver face. All three perfectly complement the colognes, which complement the aura I want to give off.

Lastly came the shoes, No more nike. Nikes were moved down the line to only being used for my morning jogs, In their place, flip flops, stacy adams, and dress shoes. The flip flops helped me understand why I needed to get a pedicure.

Now it took me at least 2 weeks to get used to this new style and become confortable with it, but now I am. I get far more looks now that before, I feel more comfortable in my game and it just so much more comfy. So let me ask you guys....WHATS YOUR STYLE?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hahahaha I understand your female friends love it, but I can only imagine how much crap you would get from your mates when they first see you "all dressed up". :D

EDIT: just to clear up any confusion, i'm not knocking you or anything mate.
 

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Personally I like the Monaco/Banana Republic style. I don't feel like a wannabe trendy clown when I wear the stuff and there's a casual elegance to to whole look. The clothes are form fitting (very important, especially if you're in good shape) they're comfortable, simple colors.

To each his own though. Look at how Mystery dresses up when he goes out... black nail polish and other weird ****. Personally I feel like putting gimmick crap like that on myself feels like there's no purpose to going out other than to get laid. It ruins the 'just here to have fun' vibe.

Anyway, it's all very much a matter of taste.
 
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whats up man, hey yo i used to be just like you.

when i was younger i used to dress like an ESE, you know with the baggy pants and the white shirt but some female friends started convincing me that i looked really bad, and you know i have money and i was dressing like a gangster.

So now i dress with well fitted jeans (i use boot cut), and a muscle shirt, with a nice watch ... but i still use my pimping all white sneakers.

hey yo, flip flops are for homos and doing a pedicure is the gayest chit i ever heard.

is cool you are trying to dress better but in a MANLY way, dont become a sassy brother.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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