sangheilios
Master Don Juan
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Women have 3 places where they peg men
- Absolutely 0 interest at all, no amount of game will work lol
- A high degree of interest initially, you'd have to really screw up to cause her to reject you
- An interest level that is mediocre or "on the fence" attitude, this is where things like personality, charisma, etc. can better your chances.
The reality for most men is the women they are interacting with have no interest at all or medium interest. Women with no interest are easy to filter out and really aren't worth discussing. The only issues with this are with women that lead men on whilst pretending to have interest, every man has experienced this to some degree (time wasters, flakes, attention *****s, etc.). The only skill needed is knowing how to identify this early on and having enough emotional maturity to cut them out instead of thinking you are somehow special lol.
The problem with today is that many women have so many options that unless they have a high degree of interest you are relatively disposable. This is why swipe apps and OLD sites are not good for men, as it's just pictures and the overwhelming majority of men are not really going to stand out in any way where a woman would have high interest. This is where in person interactions shine, if you have a really good sense of humor, very charismatic, etc. it can work in your favor. Again, the problem is that most men are just average/normal guys and nothing really stands out about them.
- Absolutely 0 interest at all, no amount of game will work lol
- A high degree of interest initially, you'd have to really screw up to cause her to reject you
- An interest level that is mediocre or "on the fence" attitude, this is where things like personality, charisma, etc. can better your chances.
The reality for most men is the women they are interacting with have no interest at all or medium interest. Women with no interest are easy to filter out and really aren't worth discussing. The only issues with this are with women that lead men on whilst pretending to have interest, every man has experienced this to some degree (time wasters, flakes, attention *****s, etc.). The only skill needed is knowing how to identify this early on and having enough emotional maturity to cut them out instead of thinking you are somehow special lol.
The problem with today is that many women have so many options that unless they have a high degree of interest you are relatively disposable. This is why swipe apps and OLD sites are not good for men, as it's just pictures and the overwhelming majority of men are not really going to stand out in any way where a woman would have high interest. This is where in person interactions shine, if you have a really good sense of humor, very charismatic, etc. it can work in your favor. Again, the problem is that most men are just average/normal guys and nothing really stands out about them.