"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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does anyone else get bored of these forums?

sure, there's a lot of great material on here but if you're online daily like me it gets boring

besides twitter, instagram, and facebook, i'm not really using any other websites on my laptop so when i get bored i log onto sosuave.

this community is great don't get me wrong, but I think that these threads get old rapidly. after a few replies, most threads get pushed to the bottom of the barrel.

i read sosuave every single day. some of you might say that's not healthy. it is what it is. it's become a habit.

maybe this would be more exciting if I gave it a break...

lol. just voicing my opinion. i've been having these thoughts for a little while now.

p.s.

I have a life. I go out and socialize enough. I just come here in my downtime.

it gets boring here...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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