"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it gets boring here

amazingswayze

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does anyone else get bored of these forums?

sure, there's a lot of great material on here but if you're online daily like me it gets boring

besides twitter, instagram, and facebook, i'm not really using any other websites on my laptop so when i get bored i log onto sosuave.

this community is great don't get me wrong, but I think that these threads get old rapidly. after a few replies, most threads get pushed to the bottom of the barrel.

i read sosuave every single day. some of you might say that's not healthy. it is what it is. it's become a habit.

maybe this would be more exciting if I gave it a break...

lol. just voicing my opinion. i've been having these thoughts for a little while now.

p.s.

I have a life. I go out and socialize enough. I just come here in my downtime.

it gets boring here...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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