"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i was realy impressed by Mr Style's approach journal, and motivated myself to go on a sort of bootcamp, where i approached at least 3 girls a day

what impressed me about mr style's approachs was the way he turned the topics onto sex, and got the girls horny

now, i have tried at least 15 approaches like this, just fluff talking for 5-10 mins, and then trying to bring in the wild girl thing, and asking what the wildest thing they've done is, but it always ended the same way. not ONE girl responded positivley

me: so you claim you're a wild girl eh, what's the wildest thing you've done?

her: wtf sort of a question is that?

they're pretty much all variations of that response, some of them just really get weirded out by it, and clam the hell up, and then look for excuses to leave, and others just simply leave, while whipping out the phone :rolleyes:

my question is, how do you game girls in australia? or more generally, how do you game girls who aren't specifically looking for sex, at least not straight away ;)

the girls i approach are the ones who i think at LTR material. i've done the whole sleeping around thing, with bar hos and the like, and i think everyman reaches a stage where he doesn't want the one night stand, or rather wants to actually find a cool chick

what sort of questions do you ask these girls, the more conservative ones. for instance, on my bus to uni, there are heaps of hot chicks who give out the conservative vibe, which i love, but i just do'nt konw what to do.

especially at the bus stop, they just sit there bored as hell, so i konw they'd at least love the company

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You need look in the mirror and work on your cheeky winks. British people are notoriously reserved about sex, but if you've got a twinkle in your eye and a playful touch you'd be surprised what girls, even here, will talk about.

If it works here, Australia should be no problem, I've got a few friends from Australia and they all say that girls over there are a lot more open - even so far as going up to guys and saying "fancy a shag?".
 

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Originally posted by Devil_In_Disguise
I've got a few friends from Australia and they all say that girls over there are a lot more open - even so far as going up to guys and saying "fancy a shag?".
I think your friends are pulling your leg. That would happen once in a blue moon over here.

Aussie girls are conservative and cold approaches are difficult. I've gotten plenty of numbers by showing confidence and sticking to safer conversation topics but then the flake rate is high. Perhaps you could use innuendos about sex that wouldn't be so obvious. "Are you adventurous? What's the most adventurous thing you've done?" Say it in THAT way with a flirty grin and you might get her thinking about sex. If the girl gets weirded out by that just tell her she has a dirty mind.

Keep trying bro and post some field reports for us!
 

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i'll try and get around to doing some more cold approaches
but i'd love to hear some advice on these boards and then i could go out and field test them
 

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Using this logic, let's say I go to London. Should being American be able to pull me some chicks?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by AverageFC
Using this logic, let's say I go to London. Should being American be able to pull me some chicks?
of course you should be able to
but wouldnt you have to change your approach somewhat?

alot of the advice on these boards is aimed at getting the HBs from america, who, as is no secret, are generally much more confident and s!utty than most other nations

my problem is that i think in australia, most girls or at least the ones iom' after are more shy and conservative

i just got back from the petrol shed, and i tried opening up this hot older lady who was also putting petrol in

me: can you believe petrol prices these days? they never seem to stop rising

her: tell me about it

me: it's no wonder we do'nt just drive straight off after putting the petrol

her: small chuckle, but i'm sure they have cameras watching us

me: so how about we put on a show for them before we leave - big grin on my face

her: nervous laughing and a smile

and that was it, she pretty much stopped putting petrol, said good luck ( ? ) and walked off to pay

i was discussing with a more natural DJ friend, and he was saying that he first tried to set himself up as only trying to find a friend, but by setting himself up as a confident and well-adjusted person who is incontrol, he avoids the friendship zone, or quickly leaves it

what do you guys think of this mentality?
if so, how do you approach girls and set it up as trying to find a friend?
i've been training myself to move into kinoing and moving the convo onto sexual topics ASAP

:confused:
 

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I don't know guys. I think that Aussie chicks are more open than their Norwegian counterpart. I don't think making cold approaches here is *that* difficult. I don't want to offend the Aussie guys here, but generally speaking, the average Aussie guy dresses like sh*t, so it's not difficult to dress good and stand out in a positive way.

Dress good and be confident and you should be good to go!
 

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i do dress well, smell nice, and have my hair done whenever i'm out

but i make sure not to overdo it, and seem like a self obssessed narciccist (dunno how to spell it)

many people comment that i look sharp and down to earth
 

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yeah I think you are right about Aus girl's being less open. But if you are on top of your game Aus can be like heaven. And yes, I would never be that direct in going into that kind of conversation, unless they were pissed and I had lot's of IOI's. Also try kinoing more to make them horny. And use lot's of humour before getting them into a sexual/attraction state. I live in Tas though so I might be easier for me, but then again I can have a girl lick my balls and suck my **** at the same time :p(non Aus people don't worry about that joke).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It just depends what kinda girl you're searching for. Sluts are everywhere dude. In the UK, in America, Europe and Australia as well. I've lived both in Europe and Australia and can't really tell a difference.
 

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of course you should be able to
but wouldnt you have to change your approach somewhat?

Well I mean just being American. Does doing the "sexy American" approach win over the non-American babes?
 

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well it seems that noone has any new advice for me

i guess i'll just keep doing what i'm doing and see what happens

i'll definitley post back if i get some good results
 
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