"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Issues with pictures

youngwilliam

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Ok, recently I was on my computer at home and I see a file folder that contained some pictures. I open it and it's my wife in a whole bunch of pictues with guys, girls, whatever. I casually ask, did you date any of these guys? And she says, no, which I knew was BS, because some of the poses (a guy with his arm draped over her t#ts) is not someone that she was platonic with. Later, I hear admit to her friend that they are indeed pictures of her and ex's (some of these pics were very provacative). So, not only did she lie about it, but since she's foreign, she actually brought them with her to the States. Truth be told, it doesn't bother me THAT much, just a little annoyed that remembering the past is that big a deal. ??????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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speed dawg

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Don't go snooping through things unless she's given you a reason to be suspicious. You WILL find things that you didn't want to. I know from experience.

I know it's a tough concept to grasp, but your chick was bouncing on multiple dudes c0cks before you came around. Reality. You know its true, but it sucks to have proof, or in your case, visual evidence.
 
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