"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Isolation on a Double Date

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*I'm on high school, but this topic has nothing to do with the high school game so I posted it here.
Hi,
I'm trying to get this HB for sometime, and we set a meeting today in the night. The problem is that she forgot that she promised her best friend (girl) that they will do something together. The HB and her friend has a very complicated relationship so I didn't tell her to cancel with the friend.
The HB asked me to find someone for the Double date. I automatically called to my wingman.
Her friend his HB too so there is no problem with the wingman.

We are meeting near the beach.

I know that the HB want us to be isolated because this is part of the message that I got on facebook: :"*her friend name* said that you will pick someone for her. You better choose someone good cause otherwise we will stuck with them all the night lol"

My question is how can I isolate her on the double date?
What should I do and what should my wingman do?


i have an idea but I think that her friend will resist. we just finished Passover, which means that we didn't eat leavened and legume for a week. so I thoght about just tell her to go with me to eat leavened but her friend maybe want to join us or resist...


I want to close KC or MC, not something further (she is kind of innocent girl)

My question is how can I isolate her on the double date?
What should I do and what should my wingman do?


Thank you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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play indoor miniture golf.............darkness...........let your friends go first then you "trail behind"...........secretly play for kisses.
 

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para said:
she promised her best friend (girl) that they will do something together.
I want to close KC or MC, not something further (she is kind of innocent girl)

Not sure if you realise this but the she "promised" her friend thing is complete bullsh1t. Your very right when you say she is innocent but shes also nervious as fvck about being alone with you, hense why she "promised" her friend that they would hang out. Gave her a lame reason to make it a double date.

Its a red flag to keep in mind that she may be too immature to date


But anyway... dont plan on getting away with much, just focus on having a good time and her having a good time. Unless the other guy is a good friend of yours, then you may be able to tell your friend to take his date away from you. Otherwise just have a good time and make sure there will be a second date(and hopefully not another double date).

But like i said, it sounds like she is nervious to be alone with you. She defenently likes you butttt may make an excuse to bring her friends every time. Make sure you build as much comfort with her as you can.
 

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Five To One said:
Not sure if you realise this but the she "promised" her friend thing is complete bullsh1t. Your very right when you say she is innocent but shes also nervious as fvck about being alone with you, hense why she "promised" her friend that they would hang out. Gave her a lame reason to make it a double date.

Its a red flag to keep in mind that she may be too immature to date


But anyway... dont plan on getting away with much, just focus on having a good time and her having a good time. Unless the other guy is a good friend of yours, then you may be able to tell your friend to take his date away from you. Otherwise just have a good time and make sure there will be a second date(and hopefully not another double date).

But like i said, it sounds like she is nervious to be alone with you. She defenently likes you butttt may make an excuse to bring her friends every time. Make sure you build as much comfort with her as you can.

It was the worst date that I've ever had.
After 10 minutes of superb game by me, all four of us sat down and then I just shut down. I completely lost it and my wingman tried to get me back to business but it was very late when I woke up.
He got me isolation 10 minutes before their last bus so it all screwed up.


how can I built more comfort with her?
 

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Man theres tons of articles on comfort building and they will help you a lot more than what I can type out for you.

Just make sure your learning from this date and you will continue to improve. Review what you did good and bad during the date and try not to make the same mistakes as last time. Thats how you become good with girls. You sound young so dont worry! you have plenty of time to turn into the lady's man you want to be. It should be a fun and exciting learning experience for you. Do your reading here and go out and put it to the test out there, they will be baby steps but you will learn each day.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ahh, something like this happened to me before. Except my wing ( I don't have one yet ) wasn't her friends date.
This makes things easier for you. On my double date I kept her close to me but still let her talk with her friend a little. This sends her friend the signal "This is MY time with her"

Or you could talk to all of them, kiss her in front of her friend and w/e.
If I were you however, I would cancel the date. Shows you have other places to be and things to do other than just hang with her. It also gives her time with her friend and might win you points for being considerate.
 
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