"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Isn't being charming AFCish?

mcmellow

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I was reading the "high school works" by nocturnal and there's one topic that talks about being charming; smiling, complimenting, blah, blah, etc. Doesn't this go against the essence of a DJ? I would like it if you guys could shed some light on this.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Boner da Stoner

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I would be a theif if I tried to tell you in the proper terms... so all I can say is

GWM-- Read the gunwitch method

While you are reading imagine going through a charming personality, while taking the GWM mindset.

It works wonders, and is very "dark stylee".

Good technique
 

oakraiderz2

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You have a totally distorted view of being a DJ. Youre questioning smiling? You obviously havent read anything on this site. Theres a right and a wrong way to give compliments. Read for about a month and if you still dont get it...read some more.
 

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Being charming makes women swoon man. Don't give it up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't know, there use to be this guy who went to our school in 8th Grade named Harrison, a lot people would say he was charming and a lot of girls liked him. Sure his father was rich(His father died that year), but that has little to do with it.
 

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heres what so many people fail to realise....

a dj isent just about neg hitting and ****.... ur not supposed to neg hit every girl u see , its only for those stuck up bitc\hes who think so highly of themselfs... a true dj is charming , he uses the game he neg hits when the time is right but he also compliments smiles kino (hugs and ****), makes the girl feel good and sh\it.....

u cant go around with a frown and neg hitting every girl and then wonder "why cant i get some"....
 
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