boatdrinks
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I went out with a girl two nights ago. We met online. Anyway at the end of the date, I told her I liked her. The next day I called her to tell her Iiked her. And to make it worse, I sent her an email to tell her I liked her. In retrospect, I can't believe my stupidity, but heh, I wasn't aware of this site until today.
She hasn't responsed to my email. Previously she used to respond straight away. So I know that I have screwed up royally by coming on too strong. However, if the situation can re resurrected, I would like to do so.
During the date, we made plans to meet up next Saturday (a week away). Assuming she makes no contact at all, should I call her up say on Friday, to finalise arrangements. My natural instinct would be to call earlier, but if I hold off calling Friday hopefully I won't come across as too needy.
However, it may be that I have done too much damage already. Would I be better off not calling at all, so she wonders where I got to, which might provoke contact. However, as we made plans, would I be screwing up further, by being rude and just not contacting her again.
Any advice would be appreciated.
She hasn't responsed to my email. Previously she used to respond straight away. So I know that I have screwed up royally by coming on too strong. However, if the situation can re resurrected, I would like to do so.
During the date, we made plans to meet up next Saturday (a week away). Assuming she makes no contact at all, should I call her up say on Friday, to finalise arrangements. My natural instinct would be to call earlier, but if I hold off calling Friday hopefully I won't come across as too needy.
However, it may be that I have done too much damage already. Would I be better off not calling at all, so she wonders where I got to, which might provoke contact. However, as we made plans, would I be screwing up further, by being rude and just not contacting her again.
Any advice would be appreciated.