"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is this one of those girl test?

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There's this girl i know, Jannet. She is a hb 7. Well she has a b/f and has been going out w/ him for like a year know, but she likes me too. She says she loves me (not the friend kind of love either), but a day or so later she says somthing like, "Don't leave the person you love for the person you like cuz the person you like will leave you for the person they like." Is this one of those girl test, cuz i don't know what to do. Should i tell her i love her too? Should i leave her alone? Should i make her and her b/f break up? What should i do? :confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's a test. Don't acknowledge it.

I made this mistake once. This girl was dating a guy for a few months and she liked me... but I became totally AFC and was giving her all these reasons why she should go out with me, rather than him. What a mess! She chose the other guy.

Best thing that happened to me, because I wouldn't be here today! I wouldn't be a better person today.

Forget about her, if she chooses to ditch her BF for you, then great. Otherwise I'd just use this to motivate you to continue your lifestyle as a DJ.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by DedOne88
There's this girl i know, Jannet. She is a hb 7. Well she has a b/f and has been going out w/ him for like a year know, but she likes me too. She says she loves me (not the friend kind of love either), but a day or so later she says somthing like, "Don't leave the person you love for the person you like cuz the person you like will leave you for the person they like." Is this one of those girl test, cuz i don't know what to do. Should i tell her i love her too? Should i leave her alone? Should i make her and her b/f break up? What should i do? :confused:
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Forget her, you can do better than a HB 7. =\
 
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Thanks Guys, I guess I'll just forget about her and move on.
 
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Any woman that has a boyfriend and hits on you really isn't worth it in terms of any meaningful relationship. I mean, you can pull women like that for a lay, but then you have to deal with the b/f and ensuing fallout after. If you pull a broad off her boyfriend, you can bet your balls she'll leave you as soon as some other guy tickles her fancy.
 
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Why the f*ck would you tell her you love her?

"Oh so you love me? Prove it and kiss me."
 
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if she has a bf and is telling you she loves you , whats the matter with her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If she really loves y doesn't she break up with her boyfriend to be wit chu?

She's tryin to play u and her boyfriend

she's just playin games
 
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u r A chump...get rid of this girl because she's playing you chump
 
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good job man!
That is just the right stuff... remember: u are the selector; not her!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If she's flirting with another guy and confessing her 'love' for him while she has a boyfriend, she sa toying, cheating wh0r3. Don't waste your time with her.
 
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I was just wondering myself, I belive that i got tested by some girls, witch I totaly failed on. Me and two other girls where sitting in the library at school and they suddenly asked me if i wanted triangular sex with them ("trekant" in swedish, just groupsex with tre persons involved, maybe there's another name in english?), but of course they did'nt sound serious. My reply was just a like "tsss" and got pretty silent. How should i deal with those situations? Should i joke it away just by telling "Well, come then". I actually think same thing occurred with some other girls, same question. I replied with "Well, come then" and i felt that it was the right answer, was that the right thing to do?. These tests came at the beginning of our friendship.
 
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