"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is this girl worth long term-what do you guys think

joe45

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what would you do if your dating a girl and on the second date she agrees and you guys do have sex on the second date at a motel. the first date we met at a coffee shop for half hour. this girl i met off the online dating. i never had a girl who let me have sex with her so fast after meeting her for the first time and then msn chat and meet up at hotel the followwing week for sex. and thats all we did on the second date was motel and sex.
we went out after the 2nd date and walked around
would you see her as a long term gf or potential.
other stuff shes like- ask me to shave my head, change and get a new clothes, asks me to give her restaurant food(i work as a chef). this is after meeting and going out with the girl on the 2nd date. she also told me she wants her bf to buy her clothes / or jewelry and i asked why ,and she said thats a way she nows her bf cares about her.
also told me all her exs or guys she dated whenever they go out it has always been dutch. when we went out it was dutch also. shes in her early 30s and has never been in a relationship, but told me when we were in the motel-how i better not just be a booty call since she had that happen to her before and i better not be a one nighter guy since she had that happen to her before and she didnt like it.
she seems interested as she always texting me and asking me to change my cell phone plan so she could talk on the phone more with me. not sure why she evevn likes me, since most of the girls i met off online dating has been one date for coffee and they never want to hear from me again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kailex

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Are you kidding me?
You've been a member here since 2005 and have over 200 posts, so I know you haven't just been ignoring the advice from people here... overall.

Yes, she sounds like a TOTAL WINNER...

Translation: Get the hell away from her ASAP.
 

SoldMySoul

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It has never happened before means that it has happened before and will continue happening.

This one sounds like winner to me....... NOT!!!!

I agree with poster above me.

Have her buy her own damn clothes and jewelry. Why would you want to subject yourself to this bottomless pit sounding lady?Ask yourself this: Piece of a$$ or peace of mind? Which sounds better? I thought so!!
 

boomerick

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Ever see the movie Fatal Attraction??

Didn't have a Disney ending did it???

Hope you're wearing a rubber every time and have a conceiled carry permit.
 
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