“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is this girl out of my league now?

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The Pedantical

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She's about my age. Took her out on a date and we were walking around the countryside, then we stopped at an italian cafe. It was pretty run-down and all and the owner was a single mother in her 60s who looked very tired and poor.

Anyway, after we eat, I take out my wallet and empty it in the owner's hands. I felt sorry for her because of the run-down shop and everything, it really looked like she was barely able to survive. So I told her to keep the change and buy some candy for her kid.

So I walk out of the shop with my girl and the owner comes running after us. I figure she's about to break down in tears for because I was so generous. So I tell her that she doesn't have to thank me, and that I know my tip was generous but that in this world we live in generosity should be the standard we all aim at. I said that she shouldn't worry about it and keep the change.

Then the owner said that the problem was that I didn't give enough, that the meal we had costed almost double what I gave. So I check my wallet, but it's empty. My girl ended up having to pay the rest.

She didn't really say anything after that. It was kind of awkward when we walked to the station and since my train got there very quickly we kind of just said good-bye but there wasn't much communication.

Do you guys think this event damaged my chances with her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you guys think this event damaged my chances with her?
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No I don't think so. I mean you did every thing possible to pay
your dues. Then she helped out.
Just let it be and move on with life.
 
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I don't understand where the confusion came in for you. Were there prices on the menu? Was each meal $20? I just don't get where the big oversight happened. I would say the next time you want to ask her out, apologize for what happened and say you'd like to make it up to her.
 
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:crackup: Classic...

Lexie's suggestion about making it up to her is a very good one. It would have been great if you would of said it right then and there. If you had you would have at least known if the experience had screwed up your chances.
 
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No, that's only one strike man. Don't even worry about it. Pretty funny story though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I like a nice fiction story every once in a while. This one was especially good.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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I like a nice fiction story every once in a while. This one was especially good.
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Maybe the next one will have Ninjas! :woo:
 
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the title of your thread is misleading. No woman should ever be out of your "league."

That said, it sounds like this old feminist hag scammed you. Why didn't you look at the receipt or something, or bring a credit card, or bring a sufficient amount of cash with you on the date?

The next time you call your chick up, just laugh it off and assure her that you'll cover the tab this time and bring a sufficient amount of cash.
 
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I think that may classify as two strikes.. Brutal.

How does something like that happen? Wtf?
 
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