"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is this girl normal?

Lost In the Seas

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Is this girl normal if her best friend is a male? She is quite beautiful, probably a 8, very smart, cute, talkative. She has this male friend that is shorter, smaller and quite ugly too that she always hang around with. They are just good friends, but is that normal for a girl?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Uhm if the two of them have been close friends for a long time then yes. Guys always fall into "friends" category with girls, why can't he be in it? He might be a super AFC and hanging out with her for years in hopes of it changing one day :)
 

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Yeah why not, if they find someone they like talking to then they will. Its not unusual, quite a lot seem to have more male friends than female friends.
 

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my ex' best friend was a tall ugly dude

he's like 6'3" 125 pounds, wears all black, ugly as heck

they've been friends since like 3rd grade and he is deeply in love with her

she knows it but still keeps him around for years now

...and just as a super AFC he hopes to get wioth her one day thinking that all his good deeds will one day pay off

p.s. I gotta show him this site
 

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nah i know her best friend quite well, she isn't really the type for him, but it seems like he's trying to take advantage of her, maybe feeling her up, or even having sex. She knows he's pervert though, but she doesn't mind because she treats him as a good friend

u think the male would succeed?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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uhm may be he is waiting for a long long chance where she get's wasted drunk at a party or something. If you say he is a pervert, then he might be waiting it out for just that chance to take advantage of her when she is not all herself and can't resist him mentaly or physicaly.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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