"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is this girl lieing or just for real and her looks

joe45

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check out the profile up there of a girl- i was chatting with her-she tells me she dated guy who worked for dreamworks production -he made 1/2 million a yr and owed 5 cars and owned several houses across the world,-i think she just all bull sh*t.

those rich guys from what i now in psch class go for hottt girls they- don;t go for a girl like her they go for playboy playmate girls yea the way hotter better bods-yea the really hot ones. what do u think of the girl above out of 10 give me u her rating, i want a honestttt honest answer- she has a bf already so i don;t care -we just chat. i think she just bull sh*t. the guy was like 34 and she was 21 or so. i mean she tells me she had 9 bfs before and was single like for 8 mnths -thats the longest time shes been single and always had a bf, ok maybe , but don;t tell me u had a bf 1/2 million dreamworks guy....
also said she had a bf before who owned several companies and all and this and that. why she on the dating web site and online finding guys if she can find guys so fast and quick - and even have to go online to find -why not just go to the clubs and show ur bod.


i mean she tells me her present bf is a painter makes like 14/hr canadian which isn;t a total lots. lol- and she dated and had a bf before who worked for dreamworks and made 1/2 million yea bull$hit-no way u go back from rich to poor bull$hit.

shes not rich works at blenz coffee house-i donlt think her parents are rich.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I call BS on the stories, and would rate her about a 3.
 

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Originally posted by joe45
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member797178.htm


check out the profile up there of a girl- i was chatting with her-she tells me she dated guy who worked for dreamworks production -he made 1/2 million a yr and owed 5 cars and owned several houses across the world,-i think she just all bull sh*t.

those rich guys from what i now in psch class go for hottt girls they- don;t go for a girl like her they go for playboy playmate girls yea the way hotter better bods-yea the really hot ones. what do u think of the girl above out of 10 give me u her rating, i want a honestttt honest answer- she has a bf already so i don;t care -we just chat. i think she just bull sh*t. the guy was like 34 and she was 21 or so. i mean she tells me she had 9 bfs before and was single like for 8 mnths -thats the longest time shes been single and always had a bf, ok maybe , but don;t tell me u had a bf 1/2 million dreamworks guy....
also said she had a bf before who owned several companies and all and this and that. why she on the dating web site and online finding guys if she can find guys so fast and quick - and even have to go online to find -why not just go to the clubs and show ur bod.


i mean she tells me her present bf is a painter makes like 14/hr canadian which isn;t a total lots. lol- and she dated and had a bf before who worked for dreamworks and made 1/2 million yea bull$hit-no way u go back from rich to poor bull$hit.

shes not rich works at blenz coffee house-i donlt think her parents are rich.
I LJBF a multi-millionaire once. He wanted to take me on a shopping trip to London and I turned him down. Great guy, drop dead gorgeous, rich...but I didn't want a relationship with him. He had too much emotional baggage. The girl is probably telling the truth. I got asked out by a record producer who at the time was working on Celine Dion's CD. I turned him down, too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's why I don't go for asian girls esp. chinese girls, they are all liars. I had three ex-chinese GFs in the past and they are all pathetic liars. It's all about status to them. You see chinese people drive nice cars and try to flash their cash by buying name brand clothes. What you don't see and what they hide is their amount of debt. They can make 30K a year and drive around in a Benz like they make a million.

Chinese guys are also cheap with their buddies and all of my chinese guy friends are just acquantainces to me, never had a true friendship with them. They won't spend the money on you for lunch or a drink at a club but when they have a GF, they'll spend everything they have plus debt to be with that girl.

They're all pathetic losers to me.
 

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Originally posted by CherryBreaker
That's why I don't go for asian girls esp. chinese girls, they are all liars. I had three ex-chinese GFs in the past and they are all pathetic liars. It's all about status to them. You see chinese people drive nice cars and try to flash their cash by buying name brand clothes. What you don't see and what they hide is their amount of debt. They can make 30K a year and drive around in a Benz like they make a million.

Chinese guys are also cheap with their buddies and all of my chinese guy friends are just acquantainces to me, never had a true friendship with them. They won't spend the money on you for lunch or a drink at a club but when they have a GF, they'll spend everything they have plus debt to be with that girl.

They're all pathetic losers to me.
cheap is right for chinese guys yes. i;,m a chinese dude but canadiazed born here, cheap b/c i have a crap job and go to school, i have no car take the bus. i never spend money on any girl-first couple of dates and that its -50 to 50 or its all mutual and all-i ain;lt no sugar daddy.
who buys stuff for their freinds-i mean i might one time or not but no always - u buy ur own .
i buy stuff like adidas, and thats about it for name brands. adiadas track pants and t shirts
 
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