"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is this girl into me, or not.

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This girl I go to school with is an self proclaimed bisexual, but has never been with a guy. She has done quite a bit with girls, though. I met her at the beginning of the semester. we flirted hardcore, lots of Kino and groping eachother. A legitimate emergency came up and she peaced out. Fast forward to a formal dinner/dance two weeks ago. She was my buddy's date but we were flirting all night. At the afterparty, she is all over me, but I am working on her hotter friend, who also happens to be a virgin and is really into me. Bi girl tells me that if I play my cards right I can have a threesome with two virgins, but i dissmiss it as a **** test and continue to game without giving her a reply. Well both of them got sick from drinking too much before anything could happen.

Fast forward to last night. Me and some friends are going to a strip club for my buddies b-day. She is hanging out with us and really wants to go. Well no matter how many open seats were there, she wanted to sit on my lap at the bar, the stage, or the lounge tables. It was fun. She was giving me tons of IOIs and telling me we were going to fvck later, which I assume was just for attention. she kept grabbinng my junk and i kept feelinng her up. she would snuggle up on my shoulder, and I got one short make-out session, but that was it.

I couldn't even get a serious make out session going. i know she is a virgin, at least with guys, and she really is into chicks, but she claims to be bi. I always jokingly call her dike or lesbo, bc a lot of people really think she is. Whenever I do though, she promises she isnt just into girls and will prove it to me. I assume she is an attention *****, but that is what makes it fun. What are your opinions? All her body language says yes, but I cant escalate it. Is she in to me or is it just ASD or virgin jitters or what? Is she really just a dyke? (I really don't think so). This girl isnt my only plate, I just really want to fvck her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any body have any suggestions as to how to handle this case?
 

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She's an attention wh0re bro. She's not going to do anything, and if she does, I certainly hope you're not spending a significant amount of time, energy or money getting it.

Personally, I would find her behavior annoying more than arousing. I would kick her to the curb and let her toy with someone else. There are a lot better girls out there that actually WILL sleep with you.
 

volkme68

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No I have hung out with her like three times, and she was tossing her money at the strippers for us not mine. The only issue with the attention ***** thing is that she wont even hang out with most guys, throws up the I like pvssy shield, or acts like a guy with them. With me she actually acts a little more girly. And I like the challenge a little.
 
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