"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tictac

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People always say this, in my case mine was observed by a psychologist to have bpd (after i figured she has it) and is currently in DBT (maybe one good thing came out of it)

Push/pull, splitting, depression, using statements like "everyone ends up abandoning me" didn't make it too hard to figure out, and now it's been confirmed.

If you haven't tangled with one then stay out of the BPD threads and I hope for your sake you never have to, your apparent arrogance makes you an easy target for them.
Been there, done that.

But thanks for your 'concern'.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Been there, done that.

But thanks for your 'concern'.
Might want to check the arrogance at the door then, obviously you haven't fully learned your lesson.
 
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