MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is this a viable solution for the man who can't get a woman?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
You are so busy on the Net,do you ever take Ladies out?...The article in Question seems a rather drastic,certainly permanent solution...If the Guy is positive about discovering his svexual potentual then read So Suave!...if not,then maybe avail himself of a number of easily obtainable Anaphrodisiacs...My Old Dad assured me that in The last War the British Army in its North African base camps used to add Bromine to the Soldiers Tea...LOL!
You are so busy on the Net,do you ever take Ladies out?...The article in Question seems a rather drastic,certainly permanent solution...If the Guy is positive about discovering his svexual potentual then read So Suave!...if not,then maybe avail himself of a number of easily obtainable Anaphrodisiacs...My Old Dad assured me that in The last War the British Army in its North African base camps used to add Bromine to the Soldiers Tea...LOL!
I'd rather he castrate himself than go on a shooting spree. But mostly I rather he learn game, overcome his handicaps and get some happiness in his life. I wonder if his standards are too high like so many men. Women are basically interchangable, find one that's cute enough and treats you well and go forth. They don't have to be a 10 unless your ego needs it.
Insouciant
Don Juan
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It was Rollo Tomassi that said it best: "Alpha is a mindset".
I feel like this guy has given up without even learning about the ways of the red pill.
It's so easy to raise your SMV by a couple of points. Work on your aesthetics, work on your ability to provide security and acquire resources, talk to the opposite sex. It's a (long and painful) process. But such is the journey of man.
Again -- this is why Don Juans are who they are. Because they're the men that have chosen to undergo the transformation process. Pook laid out what we need to do go become the strong men that women in today's society.
Let's go do it.
I feel like this guy has given up without even learning about the ways of the red pill.
It's so easy to raise your SMV by a couple of points. Work on your aesthetics, work on your ability to provide security and acquire resources, talk to the opposite sex. It's a (long and painful) process. But such is the journey of man.
Again -- this is why Don Juans are who they are. Because they're the men that have chosen to undergo the transformation process. Pook laid out what we need to do go become the strong men that women in today's society.
Let's go do it.
logicallefty
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Get some saltpeter
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
JustOlder_!
Don Juan
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Castration? Wow....either you have lost your marbles or you haven't met my neighbor gal ...she will do anyone within a 100 mile radius at a drop of a hat. ....any way, imagination is better than reality. Just sayn.