Is this a "**** test"?

[Nikar]

Basically, this chick I know has been hinting and saying things recently (only recently) like how guys are trying to tease her (like that food seller) or comment about how funny this certain guy she met was....blah blah blah....in front of my face.

Sometimes, I pretend I hear nothing, and sometimes, I just joke back at her.

So, what goes? :crazy:

 

[ElStud]

Maybe... but probably not. I wouldn't worry too much about. I say it's probably not a sh*t test because a sh*t test is when a girl says something to throw you off like "F*ck you" or on a smaller level "I'm a lesbian" or "I have a boyfriend". A sh*t test is a way for women to seperate the guys who "know it" from the guys who don't know it. And the guys who know it are the ones who get laid.

Reason chodes fail sh*t test is they react, simple as that. A guy with really tight inner game, which is what most guys who pull have, will probably ignore the sh*t test or not even pay attention to it.

 

[slaog]

I think it is a sh!t test! She wants to see if you'll react in any way.. just laugh it off or better still don't react at all.

 

[Mavrick]

Every now and then bring up conversations about random chicks that interested you. Tell her about the one that made you laugh at whatever place. Don't do it when she does it. Do it out of the blue just like her, but don't make it obvious. Also, don't show that what she says phases you. Just show that your feelings aren't dependent on her, and there are other women out there that can make you laugh as well.

 

[DonGorgon]

Basically, this chick I know has been hinting and saying things recently (only recently) like how guys are trying to tease her (like that food seller) or comment about how funny this certain guy she met was....blah blah blah....in front of my face.

Sometimes, I pretend I hear nothing, and sometimes, I just joke back at her.

So, what goes? :crazy:

Women do this when they have started opening up to the advances/flirtation of other men... IT IS A BAD SIGN! If she is not your GF then just ignore and keep your options open.. if she is your GF be prepared for her to exit the relationship soon since her respect/interest level has dropped too low.

 

[Mavrick]

Women do this when they have started opening up to the advances/flirtation of other men... IT IS A BAD SIGN! If she is not your GF then just ignore and keep your options open.. if she is your GF be prepared for her to exit the relationship soon since her respect/interest level has dropped too low.

While her interest level may be lowering, there is always a way to get it back up if it has gotten too low. Unpredictability and becoming a mystery will go a long way.

Women lose interest in men who become predictable. Stop calling for a little while. Ignore her phone calls every now and then. Once she feels like she's losing her grip on you, she won't take you for granted and give you crap like that. To be valued, you'll have to pull back and become a little more scarce. She won't talk to you like that if she doesn't have you, but don't let her know that you are backing off as a response to her mouth. Just do it, and when she asks why, just let her know you've just become busy.

 

[DonGorgon]

While her interest level may be lowering, there is always a way to get it back up if it has gotten too low. Unpredictability and becoming a mystery will go a long way.

Women lose interest in men who become predictable. Stop calling for a little while. Ignore her phone calls every now and then. Once she feels like she's losing you, she won't take you for granted and give you crap like that. To be valued, you'll have to pull back and become a little more scarce. She won't talk to you like that if she doesn't have you, but don't let her know that you are backing off as a response to her mouth. Just do it, and when she asks why, just let her know you've just become busy.

YOU ARE RIGHT EXCPT that in a world where the average woman has 10+ male options at any given time, while you are becoming a mystery other men are becoming familiar... If you are the best guy on her team then you have the least to worry about but she will still get what she wants were she wants when she wants..

Another problem is that most women often dont let you know the true extent of a problem till long after it has become unsolvable.. So if you catch it soon enough you can replenish a lowered interest level..

 

[Mavrick]

YOU ARE RIGHT EXCPT that in a world where the average woman has 10+ male options at any given time, while you are becoming a mystery other men are becoming familiar... If you are the best guy on her team then you have the least to worry about but she will still get what she wants were she wants when she wants..

Another problem is that most women often dont let you know the true extent of a problem till long after it has become unsolvable.. So if you catch it soon enough you can replenish a lowered interest level..

I agree. It's always best to never let it get to this point and to remain unpredictable and spontaneous from the beginning.

 

[DavenJuan]

Every now and then bring up conversations about random chicks that interested you. Tell her about the one that made you laugh at whatever place. Don't do it when she does it. Do it out of the blue just like her, but don't make it obvious. Also, don't show that what she says phases you. Just show that your feelings aren't dependent on her, and there are other women out there that can make you laugh as well.

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or just call her out on her sh*t. "i find it funny you trying to impress me and all. frankley, i dont care about how many guys try to get in your pants, you got t8ts and arse, its gonna happen. the question you should be really askin yourself is why I DONT want to get in them??"

maybe not that exactly, but whatever you say it should be done in a ****y/funny way and with a small grin.