Is this a **** Test? GF called me emotionless. Incapable of feeling love.

[Speculator E]

This is for my friend:

I'm seeing this girl for about two months. I texted her tonight to send more pictures. I thought we were flirting but then she texted me this:

Me: Why not (send a pic)?
Her: Bc why should I?
...
Her: "You don't have emotions. You have no capacity to love. You are only interested in ****ing.....I don't really know anything about you so why do I care to entertain you?

How should I have replied back to this?

I replied back:

"Fine...if that's what you really think of me then let's just end it. Bye. Nice knowing you."


And she didn't reply anything back. It's been a few hours but know I'm thinking I should have said something like. "No you're wrong I do care. I have feelings for you. Tell me how I can prove it to you."

What should I do now? No contact? How long?

Is it really over when since she's not texting back or should I wait a few days to see?

 

[Greasy Pig]

Definite shyt test.

Agree and amplify.
"Oh I get it. Why do girls always pull this sort of stuff when they fall for me?"
Or: "You're wrong, Esmerelda! I'm very emotional. You should've seen me blubbering like a schoolgirl at the end of Marley and Me."
Or: "I guess there's nothing else for it then but for me to take that job as an oil boy for the Miss Hawaiian Tropic pageant."
You could also go the harsh route depending on how serious you are with her:
"I didn't take you for the needy type but I guess I was wrong."
Or: "I guess your next pic will have you frowning."
Or: "I am capable of love. For instance, I love fvcking you."
Or simply: "Ok"

I love this shyt. Bytches have got nothing.

 

[Partizan]

Whenever a girl is unnecessarily acting like a drama queen, I have found that enabling that behavior does little good:

I would have replied with something like: "So I guess that pic is out of the question?" or "all right, all right, you don't have to send pics"

 

[Partizan]

Or: "I am capable of love. For instance, I love fvcking you."

This is gold.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Anytime someone criticizes your behavior in any way (in a non-work environment) its ALWAYS a power move. Its always because they feel somewhat "short changed" or "not important / influential" enough. They are insecure.

They are trying to mark their territory in your heart and mind. They are trying to own a part of you. They are trying to be "important" and this is done by using pressure to make you do something THEY want.

This girl feels like she isn't getting enough out of the relationship. Rather than stepping up her game to make you love her more.. she is lashing out like a child because she is angry, feels played, and doesn't have the confidence or self-esteem to seduce you the proper way. :crackup:

Your reaction might have been a little too strong IMO. I would of been more relaxed. As an alpha --> NEVER let a woman's behavior dictate your well being.

The reaction you gave confirmed her assumptions about your relationship. You should of said: "Don't EVER talk to me that way." then waited for her next response.

You DON'T always have to justify, explain yourself or react to every batsh!t emotional whim a woman throws at you.

 

[zinc4]

after 2 months she says that????? i would have said, yeah, you are right after a whopping 2 months of knowing you and i am not head over heels in love with you....what is wrong with me...hahaha