"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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WhitePimp

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I've hit some plateaus with nearly all of my lifts, and I'm unsure of how to break past them and get the weight back up. For the past few weeks, I lowered all the weights and upped the reps to try and get my technique and form back to their proper states but I'm ready to start lifting heavy again. Is this a good way to overcome a plateau or should I overhaul my routine? What's the best way to get past this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What has always worked for me is a combination of two things:

Vary the order of the excercises that you do. If you usually do a chest workout consisting of Bench, Incline, and Flies, try doing Flies, Incline, and Bench.

Switch to dumbells for a week or so. You will likely use a wider range of motion and really work some of those smaller supporting muscles that the bar doesn't quite hit as well.

Also, don't underestimate the importance of working deep muscles. It may not seem like you are doing much, but using light weights to work stuff like your rotator cuff will pay huge dividends over the long term.

Above all, mix it up and have fun!
 

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WhitePimp said:
I've hit some plateaus with nearly all of my lifts, and I'm unsure of how to break past them and get the weight back up. For the past few weeks, I lowered all the weights and upped the reps to try and get my technique and form back to their proper states but I'm ready to start lifting heavy again. Is this a good way to overcome a plateau or should I overhaul my routine? What's the best way to get past this?
Its one lest drastic way of getting things going again. Werman suggested another few.

There are a number of other things as well. Do some reading in the vault and on ironaddicts.com.
 
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