Is there really any advice out there for minorities who want to date White girls?

[deedel]

pick short ones. Not many gals want a guy who is shorter than they are.

 

[visions]

Sorry for this race thread but I want to report a trend I have observed on PUA forums.

Whenever a White guy asks for advice on dating non-White girls, people give him good advice and tell him he can do it.

Whenever a minority especially Asian asks for advice on dating White women, people often say something along the lines of:

1. What is wrong with Asian girls? Stick with them
2. Why not branch out? Why do you want White women so bad?

I have noticed that with Black men people will give them some sort of advice but for other races it is simply more of the above, trying to talk them out of dating White women.

Like you have so much advice for White men who want to date Asian men and Latinas. You don't have any piece of advice out there say for an Indian guy who wants to score with a Blonde.

So this makes me ask the question, do minorities have to basically pave their own way and rely less on pickup, manosphere, and those kinds of places for advice?

Also I am not Indian like the guy claimed, I am an American of Korean/Lebanaese heritage. Don't have the Asian eyes but I do have the yellow Asian skin, black hair, and the brown eyes.

your argument is valid.

one reason posters antagonize a minority seeking pick up advice regarding a "white" female is that there's the supposition that the minority in question is status-chasing. minorities, especially minority women, are notorious for attempting to increase their status on the social totem pole by "marrying up" (people in general try to up their status, and this is done in various ways depending on the context). consequently, when someone thinks you're after a trophy girlfriend or wife, you come off as self-hating and you ignite their spite. i'm guilty of assuming this.

another reason posters may antagonize someone for seeking such advice, is because they are protecting their mating odds. for every man they are able to kick off the field, their odds improve.

and to give you the advice you seek: i don't have any special techniques. all i can say is just apply to general principles of game. if being of a certain heritage means you get passed over, then there's nothing you can do (or should do, for that matter). just go on to the next.

 

[switch]

my advice to OP

if you are an indian , give up hope, marry another indian and hope to every hindu god that she wont become a sexless fat wife (which she will in almost all cases)

if you are of jap/chinese/thai/ etc origins then there is hope for you yet.
hit the gym and bulk,you are most likely to be a skinny runt.
race is never important, its how much you make her vag!na tingle that counts.

 

[Fuglydude]

my advice to OP

if you are an indian , give up hope, marry another indian and hope to every hindu god that she wont become a sexless fat wife (which she will in almost all cases)

if you are of jap/chinese/thai/ etc origins then there is hope for you yet.
hit the gym and bulk,you are most likely to be a skinny runt.
race is never important, its how much you make her vag!na tingle that counts.

Sorry man, but I beg to differ. I'm east Indian, and my wife is a semi-pro model... She's white. I was a stripper for 3 and a half years, I've literally made tens of thousands of dollars taking my clothes off for women... mostly white women. Being east Indian doesn't mean relegate you to giving up hope, on the contrary, it enables you tolerate spicy ass curry that would maim/kill other peoples!

To the OP:

I'm visible minority, and have reasonably good luck with women. My tips are basic and simple:

Be the BEST man that you can be in all aspects of your life, and aim to be in the top 5% in the important aspects of life:

- Physical: Get Jacked! Be lean and be as strong as possible. A good rule of thumb is to have under 10% bodyfat (see visible abs) and be able to deadlift 2.5-3x bodyweight, squat 2-2.5x bodyweight and bench 1.5-2x bodyweight.

- Career/Business/Scholastic: Be smart, make a lot of money, and be successful. In North America, financial success can come easily as long as you're smart with your money, career/business choice, etc. Aim to make AT LEAST 100k/year in a career/business or field that you love and are passionate about.

- Personality/Personal development: Be introspective, and really really understand what makes you happy in the his life. Be positive, witty, respectful, assertive, strong and hypermasculine to those around you. Never be scared/show weakness.

- Social/Sexual development: Ensure you have a strong social network and group of close friends. Have social-sexual awareness... don't be scared of sex. Remember women are extremely sexual creatures, and much more perceptive than you when it comes to picking up more subtle things like body language, etc. Always be sexual and always convey confidence. Remember hypermasculinity tempered w/ intelligence, humility and humor will never go out of style.

- Have long term life goals.

I'm gonna link you to one of my older posts because I think it raises a number of points that can benefit you:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180109

 

[SirFratserlot]

If youre a decent looking asian than youre really on the leagues as white guys, but hispanics abd blacks have that deep rooted racial stigma against them.

 

[Ambitious Player]

True about the model minority part. Lots of FOB Latinas in my area that look good would date an Asian guy or Indian guy but not a Black guy, the only ones that do are Puerto Ricans from the North. A lot of foreign White women like the ones from Eastern Europe in my experience are the same way.

I have an Indian friend who is more of the lighter skin kind, like Jay Sean. Guy has dated cute Latin, Asian, Asian-White mixed, and Middle Eastern girls.

But if we are talking Western White women like good looking White American women, I really don't think Indian and Asian men have any sort of advantage with them. If anything I think Latinos and Black guys are better off because some of the girls might want to try and rebel against their parents and date one of the two races for that reason.

Indians and Asians are looked as just safe and White guys on the inside (except somewhat lamer).