"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Is there more to you than just looks?"
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
HB9 immediately began validating herself trying to show me how nice she was because she loved animals blahblahblahblahblah.
I #closed with her, to the shock of my then-AFC friends.
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That line should have patents pending or at least a copyright! I even got some digits!Lord Shinra said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LostAndConfused
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Man you must be up out your mind
Dre aahhhhhhh beer goggles blind I'm just trying to unwind!
Now I'm gonna make you dance its your chance yeah boy shake that *ss....whoops I mean girl, girl girl girl.
ntopic: I heard some kid use that line and utterly fail. Unlike alot of the other canned lines you actually have to have some game to put the "is there more to you than just looks" line to work successfully.silverwolfalpha
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my reply would b -wat can u tell me-
Then it would b -gotta 2 ask-
then u r stuck lol