Dhoulmagus said:
I am in a Frat and my school is heavily greek dominated, so that just puts your name in the lottery.
So how is it that you cannot capitalize on the countless social opportunities you have with women and bond with your brothers? That is what being in a frat is about. The problem is you then... You need to stop giving a f*ck about your insecurities and start putting yourself out there during parties, philo, and take some responsibility/initiative in the house.
You have all the opportunity in the world to be the f*ckin man and you're dropping the ball. You do not want to look back on the best time of your life knowing you didn't try to rage and socialize as hard as you could.
What college/frat are you in?